I have 2 daughters a 2 year old and a 3 month old my husband is a citizen he was going to help me get papers?
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i have 2 daughters a 2 year old and a 3 month old my husband is a citizen he was going to help me get papers and now he wants a divorce, we are both 22 years old.. we r about to take 3 years together on may 29 2011.. he doesn't care about me at all or cares about the girls no show no call... that's not caring am i right? he told me he doesn't feel the same when before he gave me the divorce he told me he loved me n put our wedding song the one he dedicated to me..now i feel clueless i don't know how he really feel he doesn't tell me why he wants a divorce n i beg him but nothing he says they will take my kids away n i am going get deported now i am a good mom always been there for them n he hasn't..tell me if i am right.. he will live the trash till it got full of worms, he will drink n get violent n wants to drive even if his drunk,when he takes care of the girls he doesn't wash them good.the only thing i do is be a mom and play soccer since i don't have a good social i cant work.. what he gets pay for goes straight to the bills which is not all the bills my bills don't get pay..i am in collections now hospital bills n i am scared of that too after the divorce i am scared.. one time we were playing n he pulled my hair hard i told him to stop n he didn't he pulled it harder.. he didn't wanna look for another job because he say he didn't wanna break his back, he is young and healthy well he does smoked a lot... i think this is domestic violence am i right? my friend call him a week ago and ask what happen between us he reply he wasn't ready for this that later.. that's saying we doesn't care for us right? he and his sisters call me crazy just because i got mad over a comment n started calling his friend just to get a hold of him now i didn't call there friends n scream at them or call them names or nothing bad ill i say was if u see my husband can u tell him to call me, or could u call for my husband and tell him to call me..he was going to ajo there was a funeral of his best friend RIP... he wanted to go so bad n i say ok yet i told him we r going his family n he said no a cold short no i ask again we r going n he say no.. that hurt my feeling n that may me think wrong why was he going to see some one else over there is he a shame of us... there was going to be parties n he told me n that he was going to go and drink too.. that got me more worry.. well the day came i packed everything my stuff my girls stuff n he said no n left us.. later i notice one of his girlfriend said yay going to ajo with abel briana n esther meaning he took another female with him but not his family that got me mad also that same girl commented on his comment where he say he was going to ajo telling him me too lol he reply your a fool she reply haha i know the sister reply yes we r and message that got me mad was where she said duh just wait till this 2 fools get together wow hahaha up against the wall n everything.. wouldn't u get mad?? another message that i got mad was were the old sister said yay my lil brother is home for the weekend that same girl who comment saying up against the wall and everything commented what we doing today mr nasty to the sister comments wouldn't u get mad... after he left too he was talking to a girl n one night he told her night i didn't like that n i pack my stuff i was going to live him yet i stay n waited for his answer he got mad n made him choose either is her or me we talk everything was fine later we went to my moms house to ask my dad to help him get the car fix.. (yet he talk **** about my family n its been them who always have help him)... i went in n told my mom n came in n say your telling them n i say yeah i told him i made u choose n then he said i am not going to stop talking to her.. i didn't realize it was wrong till my mom told don't be stupid his choosing another girl over u n that's true right? i told him ur not gonna stop talking to her then i wan a divorce he still said no so i say ok bye.. he came back saying he will stop talking to her n when we went back he said he wasnt going to stop talking to her... he has been playing with my mind this whole time his driving me crazy.. now i am afraid i wont get my papers being here for 18 years have a high school diploma and i will get deported i am afraid they will take my girls away i am afraid to see him with another girl i am afraid he will come back but just to hurt me i am scared i feel like i cant help my girls... :'( help plz what to o??
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