Help please! Stuck on msn?

Friend Advice! Help Me Please!?

• OK I'm the users daughter. In need of advice. I don't know where else to turn. The story starts, I'm 13 years old. I move to a new house when I am 11 and meet a 14 year old girl and some other friends. Me a Friend and this girl are at our windows when they start showing me up like swearing at me and being sarcastic. I tell them and the friend apologises. But this girl doesnt, she says I'll have to learn she's sarcastic so I ended up saying sorry. Then she gets off with this boy and he has a girlfriend. I befriended the girlfriend but this girl didnt like it. (I'll call her girl a) So girl a tells me. But I cant tell her these things. If she were to steal my boyfriend when I get one, I feel like I cant say anything but she can. Then, I really like this boy. Like so much. She flirts with him, knowing how I felt saying 'aww' and everything. Asks him if he'd go out with her then she tells me. I get annoied after a while and she says. 'You're 12 like you had a chance.' I'm left hurt. The boy's sister was my best friend and then the boys in my area started backstabbing and she did. girl a knew how hurt I was but never stuck up for me as others did. So then I make friends on internet with friends of friends. Im at special needs school but should be at their school. Girl A makes friends with them through me. And she added that boy through my msn. She meets them at school. She only messages me when she needs help or wants me to go shops with her. She never really thanked me for introducing and she has her boyfriend because of me. She doesnt seem to care. My life is now a misery and I lay awake. I feel like shes taken advantage of me. I made her a sorry card cos of the boy thing when it wasnt my fault and i found it ripped in half a few months ago at her house. I sound selfish but I wish I could change everything. I dont have any personal life anymore. She's always there. I cant tell her because my life living as her neighbour will become a misery. I know she can make friends with who she likes but she took advantage and I feel like if we argued all my friends will go on her side. I wish I could make it so im not replaced or anything. I wanna turn the clock back but cant. Any advice? Please dont be mean.

• Answer:

  Awwh Hunny! it sounds like your having a hard time =( Clearly this girl is a backstabbing ***** and you need to realize that and not let her abuse your friendship any more! I dint think you should get into an argument with this girl as she sounds like she could make things worse and its so not worth it! I think that what would be best is if you ignore this girl and stop letting her abuse you! stand up too her and let her know that shes not being a good friend! You could tell your mates on msn what shes like but try not too sound too bitchy and ask them nicely not to tell her you did. maybe its time to use and abuse her? and as for a boy im sure that if that guy was a nice boy than he would have seen through her... and if he proffers her than doesn't it just shows you what he goes for? you should be flatterd! Any Oho Hope This Helps! xx