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How can I make guys like me more?

How to make guys enjoy talking to me?

  • Okay so I'm a college student. And I'm a girl. And I just wanna make some good friends in my classes. But I'm quite the social nerd. So, I really wanna make friends with girls, as well as guys too.. But so far, all my life, I've never been able to make good, enjoyable conversations with guys. I'm always an EPIC FAILURE in that. So, can anyone give me some tips in these: 1)What should I talk about when I talk with guys? 2)What do guys expect girls to act/talk about? 3)How to know you're not being a stuck-up ***** when talking to guys? 4)How do I make sure guys will feel enjoyed talking to me? Help me anyoneee??? Please and thanks in advance!

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    Ok I had the same problem too for a while but that's because you think too much before you speak.. First, laughing is a bonus to every conversation, it makes guys feel comfortable around you. Speak about what you do that makes you different.. a guy loves to hear that you like to try new experiences in sex or in college and stuff. If you are good at something use it to draw thier attention. If you can play the guitar join them on a beach party and offer them a nice song. If you know how to cook invite them to your home. That's pretty much what I can think of!

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Be yourself first of all. Next what do you enjoy doing? Find something you enjoy doing and find an organization, club or group you can be a part of, you will then automatically have something in common which makes conversation easier. To answer your question guys like sports, football, basketball, MMA, etc., you might pick one to learn about. When you talk to a guy or anyone you need to give them eye contact and actually listen to what they have to say.

I have to agree with ahbay. Good answer. But, I may be wrong here but it seems like you don't like yourself. And how will others accept you physically, mentally, or socially if you don't accept yourself. If I am Wrong this is what you can do. 1) just talk about things you're interested in and ask what interests them. Guys love sports. I haven't heard of one guy That can resists it. So if you watch sports talk about that. 2) each guy is a little different. Some have differents expectations, and/or standards. So you can't say what they expect. But one thing I know for sure guys expect is someone feminine. Most girls are. Look at The "popular chicks" to see. The ones who are "popular" are the ones guys are interested in. Sometimes. Most guys want what the other guys want. It's the same with chicks. Chicks want what other chicks want. 3) Well its fairly easy to tell. If they seem annoyed depending on the guy then you would know. Some guys actually love stuck up b*****s. Some not all. 4) well you can't make sure. Guys will do What they want. And like what they like. But, you should just be yourself 100% never change a thing about you because, you're beautiful inside and out.:)

hmmmm....sounds tricky. anyway,just be yourself and do practice talking to yourself,alone. just don't bring up boring topics like education and studies(depends on what kind of guy you're dealing with)and most importantly,don't be too desperate in getting friends cuz they'll underestimate you and think that you're lonely and sad.just be yourself,girl =)

Only thing that matters is be yourself, act like how you talk with your other friends who are girls. dont be aware that they are boys!

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