How can i get rid of my shyness problem?

Okay first off, your way to young to be worried about this to much. Your really young and time will make you wise. The only way to get you to be less shy is to actually confront the issue. You need to gain some confident, so get yourself involved in something that you will pride yourself doing. Weight you can always lose. Anything in life you want you've got, all you need is a strong will power, and there is no shortcuts to places that are worth going. Relax, and if need be, taking some counseling, it will definitely help you out with your shyness. Your self-esteem seems to be a bit low, don't talk about yourself that way. Believe me, people care about your well being. I'm sure you have parents who love you, no doubt, you need to learn to love yourself, and who you are. Good luck!

I have most of the same problems but I have some advice that other people have told me. For example, if you make yourself feel confident, then others will see that and want to talk to you. Also try out for a sport you enjoy or join a club, that way you don't have to be shy because everyone else is doing the same thing and you have something to talk about. Lastly, take care of yourself and stand up straight, even though that sounds lame it is one way to show your confident. And yes, some one would definetly care if you died, God, your family and friends. If you want to talk to some one about your problems you can message me(and I'm in high school too, not some creeper haha) hope I helped:)

Not all fat guys are ugly. Actually I prefer a chunky guy then a skinny one. If sports isn't your thing then you could at least attend the games and meet people, if your too shy just find someone you see a lot and just have little conversations with them, it could turn out to be a good friendship. But joining sport teams is a perfect way to meet people, plus it's exercise if you don't feel comfortable with your weight. Hope I help

first of all dnt think about urself like that!! calling urself a big ugly fu** isnt gonna get ur self esteem any higher!! im also 17 & in a way reallly shy but once i get into my not so shy mood! oh gosh u cant stop me :D hehe but yeeah just go out there and be urself. most of the time i'm shy because im afraid of what other ppl might think about me but i dnt really care anymore. its not like if i'm gonna be who they want me to be right? plus when ur urself ppl start talking to u and liking for who u are not who u may appear to be or for ur looks :D as for the weight, if u dnt like it u can change that! ive lost soo much weiight and feel sooo much confident and healthier ofcourse! hope it helps.

Don't worry buddy, your not alone. I think everyone goes through that stage in life. Okay heres some tips. So I'm guessing your in summer vacation right? Well you can dedicated this summer to working out. I know it sounds like a drag but if you really want to do a change then do it! If you manage to loose some weight then your confidence will boost up and you'll most likely loose your shyness. Also try new hairstyles or stuff like that to change your appearance. And the talking to girls part... you shouldn't be as shy with them because girls are shy in talking to guys to. so please give this a try and try to change your life. Good Luck!

lol... 6'1 and 220. that's not bad. XD Well, when I started high school, I was the shyest girl ever! Literally. I'm not even joking. My friends encouraged me to audition for the school musical and like the idiot that I am.. I agreed and went to auditions. I have to admit, when it was my turn, I was mortified. There was about 50 people in the room so I just closed my eyes... took long deep breaths so my heart would calm down and started belting out my song. After that, it wasn't so bad because when you watch the others, they're going through the same thing you are! And if you do make it into the cast (lead role or not) everyone will begin to loosen up. Trust me. The voice warm ups are absolutely ridiculous! But in time, you would've spent 20 plus time with everyone and create a close knit family. You'll be energetic and excited about everything and you'll want to talk to people, yell, and shout. =D Acting and singing is a great way to channel your personality and get rid of shyness. My BIGGEST advice is do not be afraid to act ridiculous. Because most of the time, if you are acting shy, people won't come up to you because well, they'll be shy and afraid. Be a little more carefree and open and you'll see that more people will talk to you more. You'll make millions of friends and possibly even get used to talking to girls. All my teachers call me the girl that can't stop talking now. XD And that audition was 3 years ago. Now I'm 17 and My last year of high school is coming up and I'll make sure to leave it with a blast. ^_^ lol I'm still shy ocasionally though but not very often now. =D

i used to be shy, until i started cracking jokes everyone loved em' try to be funny. many stupid random things make my friends laugh xD

Once you start to realize that you do matter.Then you will be able to be confident . Think of every person that has fed you and clothed you. Now think of how they would feel if you were dead. You are important after all.You are just being a tad bit self centered in your own self loathing.It happens to everyone that has a brain and is self aware. The more you help people and try to feel better about such things the more healthy your self worth will become. It can be as simple as holding a door open for a lady. You know that you like things,so what are you good at? It never matters what you are good at,just that you are good at something.Prey apon it and make it yours,for that just may be your destiny.Even better a destinty that you,yourself,chose and persued. I ramble sometimes,I hope you don't mind. I wish you luck,but you dont need it. The truth is there,look in a mirror. You are a good person or you are not.What do you see?