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Why can't people talk to me on MSN?

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  • I've been told many times that I'm "hot" and that people think I'm "popular", but whenever I talk to someone in person, or even sometimes on Facebook and MSN, I just can't think of something to say, or what I say is really lame or stupid so they get bad impressions of me. I just can't seem to think of what to say so a lot of the time I just sit there and not say anything and it's really awkward. I suffer from depression and A.D.D., could that possibly have anything to do with it? If not, is there anyway I could change this?

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    Don't worry about 'depression' or 'ADD.' This is how to fix your problem forever: Take a real, genuine interest in the other person. That means forget all about yourself and learn about the other person. Ask questions about what they like, where they came from, what their favorite food is, do they have pets, if they could live any where in the world they wanted to where would that be. Then LISTEN to their responses. If you think you're popular now, wait until you try that!! Also, it doesn't take much talking on your part. Because people love to talk about themselves. One little word of warning: Be prepared to answer a few questions about yourself once in awhile because once in awhile, there's someone who would actually like to get to know YOU. : )

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hi,A.D.D. might have something to do with your concentration on what you are going to say so i would say sit and think about thing you like to talk about or thing you want to talk about and write them down then when you go online you don't have that pressure of get annoyed just be your self ,and i think that you are getting nerves about what people will think of you when you talk online to at school but you should not be like that because if you be you self nobody can hurt you because that is you and you will never change and you don't need to for them be yourself that is the most important thing i say.personal i think yo have done Pretty well considering you have A.D.D being popular at school so go you be yourself have fun good luck bye.

ur sooo funny...huni ur talkin ur bum off here right now...i think u r the only one that sees u this way..lighten up on urself..if people think ur popular..then u r...right?...just keep being u huni theres nothing wrong except how u precieve urself...

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