New School, New Problems, New Drama?
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ok, so my little story goes wayyy back. in elementary school. I went to a school (lol, obviously). And then i moved to a different school in 5th grade (i started the new school at the beginning of the year). the school was in the same district and was only 1 city away from my old school. In 5th grade i met a really nice girl named Mikaela, but then in 6th grade she moved to a school in a city next to my new city. So i went to the middle school next to my newer elem school. i made tonssssss of friends and i loved school! i hated it when i was sick and had to miss school. so i went thru 6th grade and the 1st trimester in 7th grade, but over thanksgiving break i moved back to my old city. i went to the middle school where all my k-4th grade friends go. the first day i went there was the hardest day of my life! i have a friend meghan who went to blackhawk(the newest school) and i had hung out with her my whole life even in my new city, but when i went back to school to start the new tri, it put so much pressure on me, shes really popular and wants to make me popular too. im the kind of girl thats shy and dosent like to be noticed, so i dont really want to be popular! i talk to some of my 4th grade friends and when im done meghan says "dont ever talk to her again!" and she like controlls who i talk to. shes wayyyyyyyy tougher that me and steals things out of my house. now i hate school and ive actually already faked being sick 4 times since december 5th so i dont have to go to school. i really miss my old school and i figured i could go back and have my dad drive me every morning since its only about 15 mins away. i dont have like any friends at this new school. or mabye i could go to another school in the district thats even closer than the one i go to now, i know i dont get why i go here anyways. Please help me! and thanks to everyone who took your time to read this <3 ~ Katie
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Answer:
Well Katie this is a difficult situation. your " friend" isn't a friend at all and if she is controlling you this way she is becoming a bully. you should really contact your school counselor and maybe even your principal. If this gets really out of hand and the counselor and principal don't seem to be helping constructively then I suggest talking to your parents and letting them know what is going on in your life and why you don't seem to want to go to school. I wish you all the best in trying to get yourself out of this dilemma and I hope you come to a conclusion that's best for the both of you.
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=[ i say go back to your other school
what to do: well find a really good person and be their friend and stick with that person- its easier to go through something with someone rather than alone this maghan girl- if she steals something again then call the cops on her if she does ANYTHING to you then call for help because she's not the type of person you ever want to be with she's not a true friend and she's not tougher than you- although you may think so stand up to her- show her that your not someone to be pushed around and if she does anything then call for help before it gets out of hand its not snitching- its solving a problem before it gets out of hand best of luck :)
if you dont like the school youre in now...nd the school you like is only fifteen mintues away....then why are you at tht school??..i dont get it...tell your dad you want to go back.
That Meghan girl is totally crazy, she cant control you, you should really tell your dad that you wanna go back to ur old school. But like you said at the end you can also go to a closer one, you really ahould move, you should not waste your teen years being like this, so talk to your parents :] they will understand you. Good luck.
right theirs two ways you can look at this, firstly you could stay at this school and tell your friend meghan that you just want to get on with school and that you want to make more friends and that you want to be friends with the people you talk to etc. and yes she may then be mean but your new friends would back you up. or if your old school is only 15 minutes away you could ask your dad if you could please go back and that your having problems with this school and either ask him to drive you down or get a bus their everyday. either way things will sort theirself out. ( : good luck ×
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