My friend wont belive me when i tell him his girlfriend is using him?
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ok..right my friend alan met this girl eileen,i set them up i was all happy for him?they live far apart.so they talk and text constantly :P everything was going good until one day she rang me saying she was going to break up with him,i started to panic telling her not to because his mocks (school tests) were going to start in a day and he really loves eileen and he would be broken if she dumped him?so she asked me will i "do it now or after the mocks" i said i didnt want to have any part of her decision.she said ok i wont ill miss him...that was ok then..but my friend aoife wasnt getting along with eileen?and eileen started texting her brother going hey cutie do you want to meet up?aoife showed alan the text but he didnt beilive it so i rang him after school telling him and he was getting really upset like crying to me on the phone :/ now this is a guy ive know for 7years and went to primary with and that was the first time i heard him cry :( he asked her about it and she said her friend josephine was the one who was texting aoifes brother off her phone.. and she got mad and all that crap..but yesterday she sent me a text by accident(she went to send it to catherine) going i dont know i dont feel it anymore :'( :/ and i went what!?!? and rang her and she was saying it might be because of crap at school??but if she really did love him she would never think of dumping him again??school wouldnt have anything to do with it???i went ok so...but alan rang me for a chat and i couldnt keep it in,i cant hide anything from him i tell him everything (i used to love him for 7years before he met eileen but idk what happened i dont love him anymore like that?of course as a friend though :P ) i told him he got upset then i started crying because of the way she's been treating him (there was alot more that happened before this) so both of us were crying anyways...it blew over...i rang mary...eileens sister and asked her about it?mary said eileen has been thinking of breaking up with him for the past 3months?she even thinks shes just using him for sex?which i agree,they dont see eachother much and all eileen wants to do it make out for 3hours?she even asked him for a hickey and finger??? i got really mad when i heard it because i had an insane temper i text him cursing telling him to get off the phone to her?i was in a rage?he wont listen to me when i tell him?she even put him on hold and she said oh il dump alan and have sex with paraic (my friends boyfriend) i was talking to him for about 2hours?he still wouldnt listen?i was so mad i actaully went to his house(which is an hours walk away)just to show him how mad i was at eileen so he might realise im not lieng to him?he siad he loves her to much (his first girlfriend by the way) and dosent care if she cheats and what not?he can do so much better hes the nicest guy i know?he just dosent see that she going to break his heart?he dosent realize :/ and before that?she randomly asked my friend cathal to have sex?and he said yeah?it was so random they never even met before that?she used cathal for sex??shes only 16 and alans 15?and tommorow there sopose to have sex? i think shes just using him as a sex toy? she dosent love him?whats the point being in a relatioship if you dont love the guy???i want to no some oppinions ?do you think she is using him???
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Answer:
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Holy ****. Please try again. With paragraphs this time.
He likes her. He's not going to believe it until she hurts him badly. And that's usually the way it works, dude.
While it may be hard some lessons must be learned the hard way, you have done what you could
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