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How to know if I'm infertile?

UGH!!!!...IM SO CONFUSED!!!...I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDEL THIS SITUATION....PLEASE HELP ME!?!?!?!?!?

  • I know this is probably the longest question on here but i have to tell u the whole story so u can understand...so im sorry for the book that i just wrote ok so theres this girl that i really like...ALOT!.....(shes also my best friend)....ive liked her since the start of school and then i finaly told her during spring break and she said that well have to wait to see wat the future holds...and we have everthing in common..u can think of anything and we both like the same thing....and wat i havent told u yet is that she has had a bf for two months and yes i do respect their relatioship....so after i told her that i liked her i started to be really sweet to her and all of this stuff.....like i would text her everynite just to tell goodnite and i even gave her a the nickname of blueberry bcuz i think blueberries r the most amazing thing on earth(just like her) and i know that sounds so rong cuz she has a bf but she kinda doesent like him that much...and we also have a song that we both really like a it reminds me of her bcuz i really do think a girl like her is impossible to find(lyric in the song)...the song is fall for you by secondhand seranade..........so like a week after i told her she said that she missed me cuz we hanged out a lot at school and even a few times out of school and then about a week ago me her and one of her friend went to an ice cream shop to hang out(i know that sounds gay but its a popular hangout spot were i live) and we were there for about 2 and half hours just having a good conversation...and then after we left i went home and i was texting her friend and she said that the girl that i like said that wen she sees me or thinks about me shes on cloud nine cuz im so sweet and amazing and that just meant the world to me and i was so happy...and then she started to get mad and fustrated at her bf cuz he was never threre and never talked to her and payed more attention to his friends then her and always ignored her and then a couple of days ago he gave her a stuffed dog and then she got so happy and i just got really sad and i still am but after 7th period which is also the end of the day me,her,her bf, and one of her bfs friends walk to the buses together...and what i do is that i wait like a minute to talk to her cuz her bf is to busy talking to his friend so i feel bad for her cuz she just swalks beside him and looks at the ground while hes talking to hs friend so i just talk to her...so do u think i should stop doing that?.......and now im just so confused on wat i should do.....should i just leave her alone.... i sit with her at lunch and walk with her to her classes sometimes ....so should i just stop doing that too?...or should i just wait and see wat happens and then maybe bcome more then friends and yes she has said that she liked me and she said it twice....and her best friend which is like her sister thinks me and her are perfect and she thinks im really sweet too....and the rest of her friends think im way better then her bf......and then just today at school our friends and us hangout b4 the school bell rings and were having a conversation and the her bf comes around the corner and she just stoped were she was talking and turned away andthen started talking to her friends and then i back talking to my friends....so wat does that mean!?.....and i want to tell her that i love her bcuz i think i do cuz i think me and her r just perfect so i wrote her a poem and i dont know if i should give it to her and here is the poem. Im not supposed to love you Im not supposed to care about you Im not supposed to be wishing You were here with me You're just to perfect to Forget about Im sorry but i cant help it I really do love you I really do care about you I really do wish you were here so should i give it to her?.... and please no answer saying that im a loser or something like that

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    your not a loser lol. i think you should leave her a lone and not give her the poem. Sometimes people dont know wahts best for them even those it starring them in the face. Shes either gonna realize that she can have someone better and more stuff in common with or shes gonna stay with a guy she doesint even wanna be with. Just let her realize what she is losing. Give her breathiong space and maybe she will be crawling to you. Hope I helped.:)

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just be patient.. give her the poem.. to remind her that your there in the background.. but dont wait forever. Talk to her more about what she wants. if she is just keeping you there just in case her boyfriend and her's relationship falls through then i wouldnt stick around... just make sure she isnt leading you on

Unfortunately too often girls go for the guys that treat them bad and not the nice guy. Keep being her friend, listen to her problems, but don't encourage her to leave her man-IT WILL BACKFIRE!!! just be there for her, don't cross the line and as soon as she is single, ask her out!!!! and DO NOT give her the poem. It will make things weird and her boyfriend will kick your ***

awwwwwwww. :) why can't there be more guys like you? anyway, so i do think you are doing the right thing. give her the poem. do it. her boyfriend seems so ignorant and seems to care more about his friends... i know how you feel. like you have to spell it out for her. just wait.when you give her the poem, tell her that you DO care, more than her boyfriend, more than she will ever know. and i think it's really sweet. good luck!

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