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Why does this girl hopes that I'll change? I don't get why she says this, and why she acts like this.?

• She's been my friend for quite awhile, we had a lot experiences.. Almost kissing her, always giving her hugs from behind, walking home together. Now she's had this boyfriend for 4 months. Now I said it wouldn't work.. In the end I was right, they broke up. Now, I told her my feelings for her. But obviously, She wasn't ready. When we were away from each other for at least 2 weeks. I always remembered how much she would tell me "I miss you." or that one "I love you" I just thought it was cute, but I never thought anything about it. (I always thought she said that cause no one else is talking to her anymore.) Sometimes I don't trust what she says to me, she once said "You know, YOU are my inspiration." I know this really just temporary feelings. She really trusts me, she says she would defend me if people were to fight me. Now that's really surprising for me. But no one has never said this to me. So I didn't believe. She continues to say "I miss you" and tells me that she wants me to be with her. But within a week or so, she then says.. "I have a beloved." She has yet again fallen into another relationship, less than a month after break up. She keeps on telling me that he's the "ideal guy" But she said that when she was with her ex. I don't really believe in what she says.. "Oh every time I see a guy he reminds me of him." "Oh he makes me so in love." I really don't wanna be rude. But that sounds really dumb. She just got out of a relationship, now she's just gonna have another one right before she goes out of the country? She keeps on telling me about this guy, about how much she likes him. May I repeat "LIKES HIM" She tells me he's the ideal man, then few days later she calls him a crush. Then next "beloved" She's talking about this guy just as much as she did with her ex when they first met. She keeps saying "Aww.. I met this ideal guy. I can't believe I met him long time ago, I can't believe I never went out with him." She has 4 ex's This week, she continue to tells me, "I miss you." But gives up easily. She continue to talk about this guy, but really I just feel that this maybe is just a rebound relationship. Just to 'fill in the empty space' kind of thing? She remembers about me saying "I'll change, don't you worry." She always keeps saying now, "I hope you'll change :))" Then goes about talking about this "ideal guy" of hers. I don't it, why does she say all these things? She cares about me, but why doesn't she care if these things hurt me. Why does she hope that I'll change, and wink at me? I don't get anything she's doing. I know she doesn't like me, cause she tells me about this amazing guy. :/ She knows, that I'm getting jealous. She wants me to accept that she likes someone. But then says "Don't worry.. We will meet again don't worry. :)" What is this girl hinting out to me? O.o (I also want you to know, that I love this girl. She's always on my mind. I care about her and her mom. She knows that.. For the past 2 weeks I've been noticing all these things. Like every day, I always notice little signs in my life. Like her name on a dairy product in the groceries.. A girl wearing the same headband she does. Some kids playing the same game I play with her all the time. There are times I smell the air and I think that I'm smelling her favorite perfume. There's so many things that keeps me remembering about all the good times we had. But I always try to ignore them.) What does this girl mean? What does she want me to do? Should I really wait for her? What should I do, any advice?

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  I couldn't possibly read all this but I did scan it. Sounds like she is playing you just because she can. Gives her a good feeling to make you jealous. Girls do that sometimes. The 4 exes should give you a clue. If she hopes you'll change - has she told you what she wants changed? Nope - didn't think so. Just another manipulating move. Stop with the "wind whispers her name" omens. Anyone can find all these omens anywhere they look if they want to. Doesn't mean a thing. What good times? Have you been out with her on a true date? Or just these little run ins where she tells you stuff just to keep stringing you along? No, you shouldn't wait for her. You should move on. Until she grows up, matures and stops the manipulation - which maybe she never will.