Why don't guys talk to me? How do I get them to talk to me?

some guys often feel intimidated by girls who are really hott to talk to because they feel like the girl might think his trying to hit on her.. (not always the case but sometimes) or maybe u set yourself apart without even noticing so guys think that u might not want to talk... try being friendly with people, say hi, or in class draw something out of no where and show someone, or just talk more... im sure they'll be ppl talkin to you also once u break out of ur shell. =) good luck and Confidence!!!

Maybe you should try to talk to them instead of waiting. Try it out!

Yeah, try starting a simple conversation with a guy. That usually helps with getting them to talk to you.

Highschools tough&the guys usually immature, however think about the way you stand and look to other people, if u saw the male version of u, around u friends&quiet would u have the guts to approach them? This isnt your fault because its ur personality, however if ur in a class with some decent guys, try asking for their help if your stuck or just giving a smile&hows it going, u can build up some form of communication to "how was ur weekend, what you doing for christmas break" etc. Goodluck PLS ANSWER http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnuiegvZ8z_E56sfuxjzRv3sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091202203729AAWiboG

be more outgoing. there is a girl at you at my school that hangs out with the girls we talk to, she just retreats into her own little world when we come over so we never talk to her.

If you show interest in a guy even being silent will go a long way. As a guy, i know that men like shy girls better than wild girls. It's like a very exciting challenge, and it's adorable, you don't need any advice, just listen to what your heart says, and if you think your ready to talk to someone you like, try it. I used to be so shy i couldn't talk to girls, so i had my friends help me out talking to them... Bad idea, if you dont say it yourself they wont respect you as an individual. But don't open up too strong, when you have their interest, ask about them... men love to talk about themselves. If you find a good one though he'll want to know about you more... nothing perverted, thats a bad sign of a one night stand, hobbies and other topics are a good way to tell if he is looking for a relationship and not a booty call. Hope i helped at all, Nate Cook

maybe theyr intimdated by you,...i know a lot of timss i am as a guy shy and intimidated by certain girls...others i feel comfortable around off the bat and make a connecton..sometimes i think girls are too pretty because im not the coolest kid around..but they end up liking me..suprising me of course lol but they were the aggresor in most of the situations so....i mean the guy is suppose to approach you..but maybe give a little u get a little u dont have to go up to a guy and be like hey can i get your number..just say hi introduce yourself...if he likes you that will make things easier and see your some stuck up girl you understand?

i dont mean this as anything against you but they probably assume that if you dont say anything youre being a *****. its not fair but ive had to put up with some. specially with the ones that said cant you tell im not interested go away!. id say find a posse of other chix so you can build up a reputation and people will be drawn to you maybe want to talk to you.

smile alot and chill, they dont know what their missin, right?