Are me and my best friend not friends anymore? should i be mad? and how can i be a better friend?

The honest harsh truth is that you guys go to different schools, gonna spend more time with different people, gonna grow apart. But you could still be close friends, you don't have to be best friends just because how long you two have known each other.

You will be always best friends,even for a while you will not talk.Don't be mad.My best friend,we was 6-she,11-I,are now in America,I can't see her ,We write on the net no often,but we will be always best friends.Generaly,the friendship from childhood,is for all life.

Well since you havent talked in a while I can see why she would have another close friend. She's probably from her grade. Just try to talk to her more this year. If you guys were so close before, im sure you could rekindle your relationship. Good luck!

I don't know really but sometimes people grow apart, i have friend that w used to hang out every day and im all the time. But know we are kinda friends but im finding out that shes not that nice anymore!!!

No you shouldn’t be mad because there’s really no reason to be mad. By your own admission you’ve not been home a lot this summer. She’s not upset that you’ve not been home. She more than likely found other things to do with her time since you were not around. Instead of immediately jumping to conclusions try talking to her. Talking means just that talk with her, don’t yell and scream. You need to let her know how you feel about the friendship. If she’s moved on there’s not much you can do but if she hasn’t then you need to give her a chance to explain why she doesn’t answer you a lot. What someone else writes on her wall on face book she cannot control. Why get upset about that, where is it written that you can only have 1 best friend? You’re getting yourself all worked up without talking to her first. If you can’t at least wait to hear what’s been going on with her then you should just move on and write this friendship off.

some times we out grow our friends, its sad but true, i would move on,

Friendships come and go. She's a year behind you and you just can't see each other every day. At your age, day to day contact is very important. Out of sight, out of mind. Make friends your own age. I know this is bittersweet but perhaps years down the road you two will reconnect, and you can laugh and reminisce about the time when you were kids.

People change as they get older and time passes. She has probably moved on, with a whole new set of friends - and maybe her social life is now full enough, and you are out of the circle. This is no reflection on you - or her. It`s just how life goes sometimes. One person might miss their old friends more than their old friends miss them. It sounds unfair and cruel I know, but it really has a lot to do with what is (or is NOT, ) going on in a person`s life. What I mean is, one might have hit a lonely patch and is feeling sorry for herself, while the other is having a really full, busy and happy social life. The lonely one`s need for a friend is greater than the busy one.

idk. try to text her more. if she doesnt answer then wait awhile. if that doesnt happen then ill guess youll have to move on. its her loss not yours. sorry but its the truth. hopes this helps!