How do I get out of my parents house?

How do I get my parents to do something so that i get taken out of my house legaly?

  • My parents are the biggest *** holes in Utah. They really aren't good parents at all. I have had kind of a shady past, in their perspective, and incidentally i have been grounded for almost a year now. I am completely unhappy living like i live right now. They wont forget move on from the things that i did a year ago, and in effect it is holding me back from living my own llife. They have some sort of controll over every aspect of my life, yes even the clothes i wear. im stuck and cant grow as a person. I have tried to make them see reason, but this is my last resort...How do i get them to do i get them really pissed off? How do i get them to hit me or something like that so that i can live with a relative or something? I currently have a councilor who thinks that my parent's are shitty too, so i'm not just over reacting i promise. I just really need to do something that they will react to in a bad way...If you have any suggestions, they would be most appreciated!!! Thank you so much for your time! P.S. They are mormon if that info gives you any ideas at all...Thanks

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    well maybe you're just a stuck up teenager. My parents are mormon, and I love them to death, and I'm 16! and what, do you want to wear slutty clothes or something? Your parent aren't going to hit you. they sound like decent people. best of luck :)

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Grow up and deal with it. You aren't being abused, neglected, or raped. You have it easy compared to many kids your age. When you turn 18 you can leave and never look back. Until then learn to live with them.

Tonic

Maybe they didnt want you knocked up and dying of aids while homeless and dazed on bad meth?? You have the perspective of a spoiled kid. Your parents can see that somewhere along the way you had too much freedom and not enough guidance. And the natural consequence was that you lost your freedom. Look at it this way, you think the REAL world that you can run around like a crazy anarchist and never end up in jail with your just desserts? Nah. It doesnt work that way. They are teaching you that now. Your actions have consequences, your bad judgment results in lack of freedom, and an entitled character gets you basically no where in life. Why dont you concentrate on ways you can show them you are actually *trustworthy* again? Like, talk it out with them. Exchange one opportunity to change your past reputation for bad judgment in exchange for a little more freedom. ie: a month of on-time curfew gets your curfew moved back an hour?? A few days a week at a job earning your own money gets you...... something else. Sit down and ask them what they think. Figure out a way to PROGRESS with them in on it with you. They will respond to that. And it shows maturity. Because they KNOW you cant stay forever in the house, and chances are they dont WANT you there either. They just want you to grow out of your childish attitude without screwing your entire life over.

Penny Lane

Well, if what you say is true, your parents don't deserve the parent of the year award...but neither do you qualify for the daughter of the year award. You seriously want to provoke your parents into hitting you so that you can live with someone else? Please, grow up!

TrishARoo

If you have a shady past then of course they're going to make sure you've changed for the better. If they didn't care they wouldn't want you to be a better person and they wouldn't care. And they're your parents. You're supposed to listen to them and show some respect. How do you think they'd feel if they knew you called them what you did?

Marvel M

from the sound of things if you just be yourself someones bound to clean your clock sooner or later.

entropy

you could say to someone that they threaten you if you dont do things their way, violent threats

Seán

Your parents are not shitty. They are wonderful parents. They are doing what parents are supposed to do. Do you know what chaos would happen if parents let kids do anything that they wanted? You are a shitty daughter, is the fact of the matter. And your Pschologist is a shitty back stabbing psychologist, if he is in any way apart of this proposed madness. What you are asking about is illegal and immoral on a lot of different levels. You should be ashamed of yourself. You are upset that they, your parents, are not hitting you, so you want to make something up, or concoct some scenario, where you get your parents to over-react, and hit you or something equally as bad??? You are the female child equivalent of a Judas. And I hope you repent, before you wind up like Judas did. Stabbing your parents in the back like that is truly mind blowing. How about this for an idea. Focus in on your studies, prepare yourself for college, maybe even take some correspondence courses from College, so that you can get the jump on a career. Flipping burgers isn't what it used to be... If you think that the streets are paved with Gold, when you leave home, then you will have a rude awakening, let me tell you. If you want to get back at your parents, then what you should do is go to the Bishop. Make an appointment, and tell him all that has happened to you. Ask him to ask your parents to back off a little bit. What your parents are doing, is trying to give you time to grow up, and become a mature adult. So they are trying desperately to curtail your wicked socializing, hoping that when you are a little bit older and on your own, then you will have a better perspective of things, and will be able to make better choices. You don't want to be a floozy or a hussy, a woman of ill repute. You want to get good Mormon friends, who will help you to be the best person that you can be. The way to socialize in your present restricted situation is to become very active in LDS Social activities. Has it ever occurred to you, that their are other kids your same age, who are more shy then you are, who could use a friend like you? Maybe you could be the Good Samaritan, and be the leader that God intended you to be... just a thought. If your present condition in life is unsatisfactory to you, then what you should do is, is change... you, rather than try to change... the World. Changing the World is impossible. But changing yourself is very possible. You can read scriptures, and you can fast as a habit according to your own plan, and you can ask God's help, in your life. And don't you think God cares about you? Of course He does, more than you could ever imagine. You made some mistakes, your parents are reacting to that, and you can go to your Bishop, and maybe the Bishop will advise your parents to use a somewhat modified strategy in how they are parenting. Obviously something that you did, caused them to push the panic button. Keep in mind, if you get pregnant, then they are going to be the ones who takes care of the child, financially and in every other way. So you need to be rational, and start making sense, and start realizing who is on your side, and who wants the best for you, and realize that soon you will be eighteen, sooner than you think, but even then your parents will have to take care of any reproductive mistakes that you make. Prepare yourself to marry a responsible husband, in the future, along with preparing yourself for a career yourself. That is where your energy should be focused, not in getting back at your parents, for doing things, that in a few years, you will eventually be glad that they did. I am still trying to get over this logic. Your parents refuse to hit you, so you are upset at them, and you are asking people to give you suggestions so that they will be bated into hitting and abusing you. If that doesn't define the word demonic, I don't know what does.

Nephihah

You just report it to a police, school official with a case for abuse whether it be verbal, psychological, or physical. Being placed in a foster home by social workers is not as fantastic as it might seem. You get bounced around repeatedly and may never find a permanent place to stay. You could also get your parents put in jail. I would think twice.

rvnclwx

Your parents may be every bit as bad as you claim they are, but have you really considered what you're doing? Have you considered the fact that getting your parents to do something bad enough to have you removed will probably also be bad enough to have them thrown in jail? No matter what you think of them, how can you complain about their behavior but then contemplate such a thing yourself? It's immature and cruel, and you're never going to rise above your past or above their behavior if these are your methods.

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