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UGH!!!!...IM SO CONFUSED!!!...I DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDEL THIS SITUATION....PLEASE HELP ME!?!?!?!?!?

  • I know this is probably the longest question on here but i have to tell u the whole story so u can understand...so im sorry for the book that i just wrote ok so theres this girl that i really like...ALOT!.....(shes also my best friend)....ive liked her since the start of school and then i finaly told her during spring break and she said that well have to wait to see wat the future holds...and we have everthing in common..u can think of anything and we both like the same thing....and wat i havent told u yet is that she has had a bf for two months and yes i do respect their relatioship....so after i told her that i liked her i started to be really sweet to her and all of this stuff.....like i would text her everynite just to tell goodnite and i even gave her a the nickname of blueberry bcuz i think blueberries r the most amazing thing on earth(just like her) and i know that sounds so rong cuz she has a bf but she kinda doesent like him that much...and we also have a song that we both really like a it reminds me of her bcuz i really do think a girl like her is impossible to find(lyric in the song)...the song is fall for you by secondhand seranade..........so like a week after i told her she said that she missed me cuz we hanged out a lot at school and even a few times out of school and then about a week ago me her and one of her friend went to an ice cream shop to hang out(i know that sounds gay but its a popular hangout spot were i live) and we were there for about 2 and half hours just having a good conversation...and then after we left i went home and i was texting her friend and she said that the girl that i like said that wen she sees me or thinks about me shes on cloud nine cuz im so sweet and amazing and that just meant the world to me and i was so happy...and then she started to get mad and fustrated at her bf cuz he was never threre and never talked to her and payed more attention to his friends then her and always ignored her and then a couple of days ago he gave her a stuffed dog and then she got so happy and i just got really sad and i still am but after 7th period which is also the end of the day me,her,her bf, and one of her bfs friends walk to the buses together...and what i do is that i wait like a minute to talk to her cuz her bf is to busy talking to his friend so i feel bad for her cuz she just swalks beside him and looks at the ground while hes talking to hs friend so i just talk to her...so do u think i should stop doing that?.......and now im just so confused on wat i should do.....should i just leave her alone.... i sit with her at lunch and walk with her to her classes sometimes ....so should i just stop doing that too?...or should i just wait and see wat happens and then maybe bcome more then friends and yes she has said that she liked me and she said it twice....and her best friend which is like her sister thinks me and her are perfect and she thinks im really sweet too....and the rest of her friends think im way better then her bf......and then just today at school our friends and us hangout b4 the school bell rings and were having a conversation and the her bf comes around the corner and she just stoped were she was talking and turned away andthen started talking to her friends and then i back talking to my friends....so wat does that mean!?.....and i want to tell her that i love her bcuz i think i do cuz i think me and her r just perfect so i wrote her a poem and i dont know if i should give it to her and here is the poem. Im not supposed to love you Im not supposed to care about you Im not supposed to be wishing You were here with me You're just to perfect to Forget about Im sorry but i cant help it I really do love you I really do care about you I really do wish you were here so should i give it to her?.... and please no answer saying that im a loser or something like that

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    Aww thats so beautiful. Your kindness isn't anywere near being a looser. Yeah, I think you should give her that poem.

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well im a girl and i know me and my friends like it when guys write us poems and stuff so i think that you should give it to her so that she knows how you really feel about her because she might start realizing that our way better for her that her bf...so i think that you should give it to her!

It's okay you wrote a book. It sounds like you really care about her. I don't know if this is good advice or not, no one has a magic wand to wave. It sounds like you were doing okay on your own for a while until you decided to back off. Maybe you need to keep being persistant. Only you can decide. I would save the poem until you know for sure she's your girlfriend or wait until a desperate moment, like he asks her to get married, (it's the only thing I can think of that would be that desperate of a moment.) I would also make sure that she knows what she is missing. Persistence paid off with several couples I know. Keep being your sweet self, I think it's wearing her down, keep working on her. For some reason she hasn't broken up with her boyfriend, so find out why. Become her best friend and then just wait, I know it's hard, but she knows how you feel, keep doing sweet things and being there for her, but no pressure, just your sweet kindness that she can depend on. After a month, tell her that you could be spending that time together that she is wasting on him and that while you'll always be her friend, you won't wait forever and then wait at least another month. Even if nothing happens and you meet someone else, don't burn your bridges with her, you never know what the future holds. Just don't give up if you really like her and hope that she isn't one of those girls who are into "bad boys." No girl is worth losing yourself over. If it doesn't work out, you will fall in love again. Good luck.

Don't give up and stop talking to her. Wait and see what happens. I think its going to take some time for her to realize that she shouldn't be with the guy shes with now, she should be with you. You should definitely keep pursuing her like your doing now. because if you don't you will regret it later. And thats not too good of a poem, but I do think you should give it to her.

it's not that great of a poem, to be honest. Guys assume that just because it's called a poem, the girl will fall for you.

you are not a looser.. you are really rally confused and that's normal .. to develop feelings for someone you hang out with on daily basis and someone that at the moment is not accessible to you. she has a boyfriend and your mind sees it not as an obstacle but as a challenge.. so you keep following he around.. becoming more sweet and leading her on with your compliments.texts.. etc etc I personally suggest you stop for a minute and think about the real outcome.. you are interfering in her relationship and confusing her by being the way you are.. let me tell you the possibility of what can happen to you in the long run..Boy like girl girl has boyfriend.. boy becomes friends with girl and becomes extra nice. boy confesses feelings girl keeps it on the down low.. boy writes poem boyfriend finds it.. drama.. fight .. rumors .. girls gets back with the boyfriend and you end up with broken heart. or... same scenario girls feels the same breaks up with boyfriend goes for you.. you are happy and together , but you have made an enemy for life her boyfriend who yo have to look at every day and know that you took the girl away .. think about his feelings also .. i hope you make the right decision good luck :)

Give the note to her. And keep talking to her. You can't wait for you guys to become more than friends. You have to take action! Also I just read through my question and i know it kinda sounded like i was being mean, but to let you know i'm not trying to. The deal with her "boyfriend" is she doesn't like him! He just thinks shes cool so he dates her. And he thinks you're weird i guess, which makes her act weird around you when he's around. Sorry but i don't know what to do about him. Anyways, also don't talk all the time with her because she'll need timeto herself sometimes. But if she likes to talk with you, do it pretty often. Good Luck!!!

You are not a loser, but you did write waaaaaay too much stuff! Which tells me you are practically bursting and your head is swirling. Give her the poem, or part of it and see how she reacts. You are just going to be in torment until you know. So do it!!

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