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How can i make guy friends? i only have friend hu are girls and most guys dont like me??? HELP!!?

  • How can i make guy friends???!!! help i need advice ASAP PLZ!!!

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    I've always found it easy to talk and hang with guys when I sort of become a guy myself. I don't mean go out and buy baggy pants and shirts and stuff, I just mean personality wise. You need to be able to get down and dirty but still be a girl. Here's some things that help me. ~~You need to be relaxed, laid back, and be ready to have fun. And do not take what guys say seriously. What they may think is funny may seem rude and hurtful to you. ~~You need to be able to get rough and you cant be afraid to get "down in the mud". I was at a party where they were playing Boot Hockey. Me and my friend were the only girls who joined the guys and tackled and slid into people. The guys loved the fact that we were rough and got into the game. I made some friends because of it. ~~Make sure you can talk about something guys like to talk about like sports and video games. My guy friends really enjoy trying to explain to me how golf works, or about the engine on their boat. Guys like to sound like an expert. ~~Give them some competition. I've challenged guys by saying I can throw a football farther than them and I've challenged them to a 1-on-1 basketball game. A guy and I even got into a small argument over who could throw the other off of a jet ski first. It doesn't matter if you can or cant beat them, the fact that you challenged them and gave them competition is good enough. ~~Be yourself. Guys do not like girls to be something they arent. Sure, you arent a guy and you may be more girly than tomboy but guys like a girl that can be one of them. Keep in mind that you dont have to completely be a guy. You can scream and stuff and get weirded out, its completely fine. Guys actually like it. I know my guy friends love it when I let out a shriek or something if they are coming in for a tackle when we play football.

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It really depends on the guys, but mostly you sort of have to show an interest in guy stuff. Like this girl I know who hangs out with a lot of dudes because she likes Naruto and video games and stuff like that. They aren't embarrassed to play Magic cards around her because she is cool with it. I can't really tell you how to INITIATE friendship with guys, other than just meeting them through your girlfriends. Give that a shot.

The one sure tip I can give you being a woman who has had all guy best friends is that guys are more about doing stuff than sitting around and babbling like girls. Guys dont like chit chatting for hours, in fact, they can sit in relative silence for long periods of time playing video games and just grunting out one or two word comments and/or insults with each other. Guys dont like chit chatting about the little details of their day like girls do, or talking about people in a gossipy way, or talking about anything that they consider boring or inconsequential. (like clothes, makeup, and sorry to say, feelings.) When guys talk with one another you will notice it is mainly about external stuff they find cool (movies, music, hobbies) and rarely about themselves, how they feel, what they think of social stuff, their thoughts and feelings. If you wanna get down with the guys you have to let go of your urge to spew talk all the time, and concentrate more on actions and doing things-playing games, competing,outdoorsmanship, riding skateboards, fixing things, tinkering with electronics/computers, jamming out music, etc. etc. And keep your conversation on these things and not you, your feelings, your looks and style, your opinions of people, etc.

Well, I had this problem about a year ago! Just sit at thier table with them or walk with them, don't say anything but "Hey." It's a surefire way to get them used to you hanging around them, then when they are used to you start talking more until you're good friends. It worked for me! Good luck!

just tell your girl friends to introduce them to you make casual talk and a lil joke every now and then they are just human so talk to then the way u would talk to ur girl-fweans just be cool and be yourself!! GOOD LUCK!! :)

Introduce yourself to guys. Start with a simple "Hey! I'm _ _ _ whats your name?" I'd say start with saying that to nerds and geeks first. There easy to talk to. Then work your way up to jocks and stuff.

just talk to them and be friendly... its not hard.

Why don't they like you? That part makes me think it's your problem that you have to change. Be nice.

yes you can just dont exclude yourself and make sure to talk to them http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnAdVNTiOQQbU5zkOp.5O2fsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091031215612AAKWHbM

just approach them. they'll think your confidence is hot. please answer mine, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091103155055AAZngO4

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