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Why do I get so fking jealous of my ex-friend?!?!?

  • I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE! She has a bubbly personality, which i envy her for that! I have an attitude, i'm shy, and i'm BOARING. Most of all, people think I'm sometimes annoying while some other people think i'm funny. Well anyway, she is LOVED by EVERYONE. I mean, all boys everywhere, she likes. She's good with children too! I mean, i think children are annoying and... selfish. Well we used to be best friends. I broke it because I just didn't want her to get hurt of my jealousy. D: I know, i regret that painfully. It made my depression move onto the next stage whenever i thought of it. Which lead to suicide and bullied. Well whenever i go on her profile in fb, i always see people posting stuff on it, and asking her to go hang out! Like in the movies and in the park and in the kareoke. This guy who says he truly loves me, he asked her to hang out at the kareoke or the movies. T.T I'm so hurt! And something makes me think that whenever she finds out who i like, she steals them from me! She's seduces boys off their feet like.. IN A SECOND, YO. she's sucha good flirt! and i mean, she's better at studying than me(Not really. Lol.). She's pretty(Sometimes i disagree, but she's not ugly though. She just looks... different from other people, which makes her special. So i am also envy her for that!).i once told her about my past suicidal thoughts and she hugged me to make me feel better and she talked me out of it. When I cried in school for serious drama matters, she hugged me and comforted me. How can i backstab sucha wonderful friend like her? Why is that i regret everything? Huh? Why? Tell me. Why?! I love her (I'm straight. -__- I mean 'love' as in friendly type of way. Everybody loves her!) a lot because she's just so comforting! Now I'm so delicate with her because i never want to lose any friends again. And I don't dare backstab her again! She can sit up straight for hours in a row and she refuses to yawn, when a huge one is about to come out. She listens to the teacher, and she stares at them directly in the eye. The teachers, (Spanish, Korean and English teachers) gather and talk how I never sit up straight, i always yawn, and i refuse to look them in the eye. Even if i try my best, i catch a glimpse of her and remember the teachers' advice. To study hard, to listen to the teachers, to reply to their questions, and to look them in the eye with my back straight. AND WITHOUT YAWNING TOO. But it's so.... difficult. I have ADHD and horrible Studying habits. I'm in middle school, and honestly, literally, i never studied before. not once, yo. D: Please help me... Jealousy is overtaking my body. And i have so many problems, she has none!

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    I think you should try hanging out with her again and try to become her best friend again! Once you do, you will remember why you guys were best friends and also realize that there is nothing to be jealous about! I'm sure there are things that you can do and she cant do. You sound like a great person so don't be discouraged and just become her friend again!Also, you should tell her how you feel and sort your problems out. Who knows, she might even be jealous of YOU. (Sorry If I didn't help much =.= ) P.S. : Whats up with the yo ? :P

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Don't stalk her Facebook... It's unfortunate that you cannot control the jealousy, but since that's the reality of the situation,and you have already chosen to quit the friendship, just move on. Whenever you catch yourself thinking about her, shift your thoughts to something else. Make a list of somethings that are great about yourself. You are at least a good enough friend to not want her to be hurt my your jealousy! Do some positive self-talk. Really, it helps even though it might feel dumb or pointless. Give yourself a compliment everyday and that will build yourself-esteem up! Once you gain the power of great self-esteem, you will no longer feel jealousy because you will feel adequate and happy with the person you are!

i think you should try another way . you couldn't think shes better than you to every things Imaging ; be for mach you tell to your self im loser im loser.

David

I think you have alot of self-issues to resolve and organize before you allow people to come into your life. You judge people TOO much and you automatically think that others have it better than you when in reality, you have NO idea what goes on behind closed doors. Maybe this girl stepped into your life to teach you something, to be a role-model sort of. She has a bubbly personality becuase she CHOOSES to be that way, she chooses to be confident and that's why she gets so much attention for it. And not to be rude or anything, but nobody wants to be around someone who's negative all the time, or who self-pity themselves. it gets exhausting hearing something negative from someone and frankly, people will just shy away from you and you don't want people to remember or think of you as someone who's always down. You want people to talk good about you and be excited about you. She likes kids, you don't. You both have different personalities and you can't be her becuase they will only be ONE her and ONE you and you have to be loyal to yourself. But what you should ask yourself is, is it really necessary to dislike kids? Becuase every time i see kids, they put a smile on my face, especially little tiny ones that beg for candy and juices at the store. lol I mean we were once like that too ya know. But i guess it depends on what kind of kids you encounter. The fact that she may have so much attention may also make her feel pressured too, becuase she has keep up this side of her in order to please others, So that may be something you don't know. When you wake up in the mornings, you have two choices, you can wake up and drag yourself with this phony and crappy attitude, or you can choose to be happy.

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