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  • Okay, so my friend's mom is an alcoholic, she takes pills and smokes cigarettes. She isn't that tall because she has a hunchback, so because of her addictions, she fell down some stairs and damaged her legs pretty bad. Now they get super swollen, and then they go back down. It get's pretty bad, it looks like she has golf balls in her ankles. Her legs get swollen 3X her normal size. & she says it hurts really bad. She has had heart attacks, and she has heart problems & she is always saying her heart hurts so she has to take these little pills to help. She cannot drink anymore, or she will die, but she still does sometimes. She had to go to the hospital because she puked up blood and collapsed. She was in the hospital for a month, in acoma. The hospital tried looking for the spot where the blood was coming from, but they couldn't figure it out. Ever since she got home from the hospital she seems really crabby,and very very weak. She says she's stressed out so she drinks a little bit as mentioned previously. My friend is 14 turning 15 in February. She and her mother are the only two living in her house. My friend called 911 the first time she went into the hospital & she is scared that going to school and not always being with her mom, she will not know if she is okay. She doesn't want to come home and find her dead,or locked in her room and not being able to open the door. The doctor her mother goes to isn't a good doctor, he prescribes medicine to people when he knows they don't need it. And he doesn't treat the heath condition in the right ways. Also, sometimes she complains not to have people over because she doesn't want any loud noise. Whenever she gets sick, & my friend gets scared she's gonna die, her mom tells her not to call 911 or she will be mad at her and never forgive her, because she hates hospitals. Now the question is, what should we do? My friend wants to talk to her moms doctor about getting her hospitalized so that she knows she is being taken care of the proper way and is not doing things to intentionally damage her heath more than it already is. She wants her mom to be stabilized and healthy enough to go back home and not have to worry about doing the bad things. And should we talk to a school counselor about it and see what kind of rehabs and medical help we can get for her? We're doing this all behind her back because we know that she won't approve. But she has to do better for her daughter, and she won't do it if we don't make her. WHAT DO WE DO?! PLEASSSSSSSSSE ANSWER

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    Wow this is sad....first I just wanna commend you guys for being so mature and taking responsiblity. And honestly the only advice I can think to give you (you sound like you've done everything) in this situation (and you're probably not gonna wanna hear this) is to pray...ask God for strength and comfort and to help her mom physically. Ask God to help her mindset and to give her the strength to do what she needs to do to get better. I'll definitely be keeping you guys in my prayers.....I hope everything works out :/

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It is for the better and i strongly agree to talk to the counselor so he can help you out too. Ignore her being angry from not wanting to go to the hospital but it is for the better. At this point it seems she is in great danger because she is an addict and can't stop. It seems like she is just wanting to commit suicide. Most importantly get a new doctor because I had the same problem with my mom meeting a bad doctor giving her medicine that is not didn't have anything to do with what she had. She needs to be hospitalized and rehab! I hope you help her! God bless!

First of all, you guys should be proud of yourselves. You are seeking medical help which is good, and although she doesn't know it, it is helping her. Now, I would say talk to a doctor/school counselor about it, because they wil have a better opinion on the matter. Talk about maybe putting her into rehab, or an AA group. I think that you guys are beig wry brave for what you are doing, but definitely go seek help. If she finds out than that is okay, because she will eventually. If you can, try to plan an intervention, with her doctor and some family:) You guys are brave, be proud of what you're doing.

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