What are the chances that I contracted HIV?

What are my chances that I contracted HIV?

• So I guy I've been having sex with (I'm gay) just called me today to tell me he tested positive for hiv. We always used protection and the last time we had sex was about 2 weeks ago. I usually topped, but I think I bottomed twice, or maybe three times. We always used condoms. He gave me oral sec a number of times, without condom.. but not until orgasim and I sucked him off once or twice.. but I never let him *** in my mouth. It was more foreplay. I know we were safe, but I'm totally freaked out now.

• Answer:

  WOW! this is a little scary, but relax, the best thing is to help him get through what he needs to, then the next most important thing is to get yourself tested! this situation is no joke! if being embarrassed is the only thing stopping you from getting tested than you need to swallow your pride and get over it, this could either be very serious or not a big deal at all! if you never injected his sperm, than you should be fine, that and as long as you don't share heroin needles! please comment back! you will be in my gay little prayers! we don't need any more negativity in the gay community!