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How do you find real love?

Teach me how to find Love with an STD or let me kill myself.?

  • I have HSV-1 and HPV, to believe it or not I was trying to find true love. I thought I found it. The one person. She was a liar and every bad thing, a cheater, a slut. She did it all behind my back, until I connected the dots and she tried for a long time and to my amazment she Lied to me in front of my face, over and over again perfectly with no tail that she was lieing...and then she broke...and told the truth after i pushed her on a suspicion. My first true love, My first time having sex. And she gave me two STD's that can't be cured. So I ask you. what am I suppose to do? I want to be happy with a partner. 95% people outright end a relationship if they find out you have a STD...let alone TWO!!! I tried online dating sights for stds....but it appears those are very much dead! So I want to kill myself....because I can't even get to a relationship stage without them leaving when they find out I have an STD. So what should I do? Never tell anyone? Kill myself? If you don't want me to kill myself and you have had an STD or More. TELL ME! HOW DO YOU FIND LOVE AGAIN!!? WHAT DO YOU DO?? TEACH ME How you find people who won't reject you the they know you have an STD! Is there a group....some website.....some real world club!....WHAT!

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    The past is the past, try to move on and let it go. Just because there was one bad apple that doesn't mean that there are going to be others. You can date normal people you just have to be honest with your partners and be care full about who you choose to trust. The people that would end it are being very shallow and or don't know much about stds. You should be honest with your partners. If you want to take things to being intimate then let them know about your stds. Some people will be willing to accept you no matter what, that is unconditional love. You don't want to be with some one that will reject you or just date you with out getting intimate. Unless you have it genitally, HSV1 is the virus that causes cold sores on the mouth and is not considered to be an std. As for HPV or HSV2 they can be treated and manged with medication. It may feel like it right now but honestly you're life isn't over. There are dating sites and support groups out there that you can join. http://www.google.ca/#hl=en&sugexp=pfwc&cp=22&gs_id=3i&xhr=t&q=std+dating+and+support&pq=herpes+vaccine+2011&pf=p&sclient=psy-ab&source=hp&pbx=1&oq=std+dating+and+support&aq=0v&aqi=g-v1&aql=f&gs_sm=&gs_upl=&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&fp=ba8af5c204da8e7b&biw=1280&bih=599

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http://std.about.com/od/treatment/u/userpath3.htm You can start there. I just googled "how to live with stds". Whatever you're thinking, suicide should not be one of the choices. You sound young (teens?) so you still have a long, long life ahead of you.

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hockeyfan98

Drama much? HSV-1 is cold sores, and most people have that virus already. HPV is treatable if you have warts and the virus will clear up within a couple of years. Geez, I'd date someone with an cold sores, but I wouldn't date someone who went around announcing that he wanted to kill himself.

Hpv goes away in time and idk about the other one. If you have a relationship and you guys start to trust each other then that's when you tell your partner and if she loves you she will stay . Tell her before you have sex of course. You just have to wait no rush on love. Some one will love you for who you are not what you have. Good luck.

mommy to be may 21,2012

try theraphy

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