I hate college and want to drop out?
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I know this is long but i truly need help so please read? For the past 6 months I have moved around 8 times, lost my apartments, my family, and money, jobs. A couple weeks ago I had an apartment with a girl I didn't know everything was good until she decided to kick me out one day (for literally no reason, and I am heartbroken and lost) now I'm staying with a friend. I have been through hell and back, and back to hell again and I feel so worn out and so sad and depressed (that I l internally am starting to fall apart as I write this), I can't take it anymore. Ontop of all this stuff I have to worry about school which I can't afford proper books for but i already took out a huge loan to pay for the tuition and an apartment (which I lost) .... That's the only thing keeping me from dropping out. I want to drop out and work full time because I don't want to bother my friend and her parents by staying here too long (I've already stayed with them once before too), but if I drop out I am more than afraid that once I do and start working full time, my school loan people will want their money and send me bills and I'll be paying for those instead of saving for an apartment and just the thought of that makes me feel trapped, because if I stay I know I won't concentrate on school like I should because I'm so lost and overwhelmed with everything and stressed out, and if I do, I still won't have money because it will all go to them. I took out 10,000 all together I think. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to just coast through my classes and just get d's or c's because that will look bad if I want to transfer to a four year and on top of that I'm not even sure what I want to be yet! I'm just waisting money and taking random classes! What should I even do. I can't talk to anyone I know about this because everyone will tell me (without thoroughly thinking it over) to stay in school.
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Answer:
Obviously you are overwhelmed, and the best thing to do when that happens is regroup. I would say drop out for now, focus on paying off the loans and come back to this after you are better suited for the situation.
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Dang!!! Drop out and come back later if possible!
Jordan
OK! drop out and bum your way round the world for a year; but while you are doing it think hard ; what do i want to do, and what do i want out of life. Learn much from your. travels, come back refreshed and make a completely new start.. But beware we get these moods right through life and cannot take time out always. I have had 91 years of life and learnt much now a trained counsellor.
octogen
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