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How To Attract Women?

How to attract women? And why do they hate me so much?

  • I'm a 19 year old guy. I've never had luck with women. They just don't like me. I've never been in a relationship. Never done anything with a girl, not even held hands. I don't want to have sex or anything. Just hang out, talk about our joys, sorrows, be best friends...that sort of stuff. Back in HS, I wanted a girlfriend. I even gathered the guts to ask a girl I liked, who was in my league but she rejected me in an unkind way and we never spoke. I barely ever talk to girls after that incident. I have now been in university for 6 months. And never talked to a girl except for study matters. There is this girl who just joined here and used to study with a good guy friend of mine. I thought since we have a mutual friend, she would want to be friends. At first, she was a bit enthusiastic with talking and getting to know me. I was very friendly with her too. Then she suddenly quit talking to me. I messaged her once on facebook enquiring how she was and how she was settling in...I got a one word answer so I quit talking... I don't know what's wrong with me!! I'm not handsome, but I'm not ugly either. I'm a track and cross country runner in good shape. I know its bad of me to be saying this, but I see guys worse looking than me who drink, smoke and do stuff getting girls while me who takes care of himself is forever alone.

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    maybe fix your looks a little n grow some self esteem

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You don't provide enough info for an informed answer, but you sound quite normal and adjusted in your post. One thing I would say is that women generally don't warm to needy or desperate men, so try and look at yourself critically to determine if you are sending out those signals. They also don't like an intense and inordinate amount of attention early on in a friendship/acquaintance, so keep things light at first.

You gotta be careful wat you say to girls dOnt look desperate dOnt talke about relationships just be yourself make the girls laugh be funny but don't try to be funny but just relax don't look for a relationship be friends and don't want anymore

Dude that's your probably you have no confidence. You got to get notice. Try walking up to a real hot girl and talk to her walk her to class. Most of the time just catch eyes with her, this will drawn her in. Believe me bro. And if your in shape, show it off. I'm out of shape and I still pimp bitches

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