What is the male equivalent to a siren?

What would be the equivalent of a "male dominatrix"?

• I am a biological male who identifies as genderqueer and pansexual. I present in a very androgynous way, in no way passing for female, but preferring a more glamorized, pretty appearance, which includes makeup most of the time, and articles of female clothing some of the time. However, I feel sexually active as opposed to passive preferring to be "in charge" of my partner, whether male, female or otherwise. I'd like a label to go by, not so much for myself, because my identity is dynamic, but mostly to explain to a prospective partner. Any ideas? To be called a dominatrix has so much rooting in femininity, but I am not a woman, nor completely comfortable being male identified. Thanks!

• Answer:

  "Dominatrix" by it's formation denotes "female," precluding the idea of "male" being associated with it. "dominatrix "dominant female entity," attested since 1560s, though not in quite the usual modern sense ("Rome ... dominatrix of nations" [1561]). See domination + -trix. Modern BDSM sense attested by 1976." "-trix fem. agential suffix, from Latin, corresponding to masc. -tor." So the male version of a dominatrix would be a "dominator." It's the same for "fellator" and "fellatrix"-- a male and female practitioner of fellatio, respectively.