How to cope?

How can I cope with everyone telling me how much they hate me?

• I want to make this brief and straight to the point; I feel the need to rant, let it out and get help. I'm always being yelled at in school by everyone, teachers and my pupils. Everyone thinks I'm a "moron", calls me annoying and speaks to me sarcasticlly. Everyone calls me name when they want answers but won't give me a time a day after. I have no friends and even the people i sit at lunch with ignores me like im invisible. I'm honestly nice to everyone that I meet. I dont believe in hurting others because I've been there and I know how it feels, yet I'm always being critizied by everyone. I always compliment people and i respect eceryone as an equal; so why am i treated like sh*t? I'm ashamed of myself and I always try to ignore being embarrassed in public. I have no life and spend my weekends at home locked up in my room while everyone i know has a social life and goes out. I've never had a boyfriend or even had a first kiss; but im okay with that, I'm too ugly and I'm ashamed of myself, a relationship will just make me even more self conscious and stressed.. A few weeks ago my teacher yelled at me and said "I swear Paulette your husband in the future is going to end killing you, put you in a bag and throw you over a bridge because you won't stop talking!" what made me even sadder was that she said this in front of everyone in my class and my other teachers. No one said anything and they just stared at me. I was speechless and shocked and so humiliated that I sat in my seat and sobbed to myself do know one will notice.. These moments that make me awake at night happen everyday and I can't stand it anymore. Anyway what do think is wrong with me? Why am I always pushed to the side no matter how hard I try to please everyone? Thanks :)

• Answer:

  This may sound hard, but people will treat you this way if you let them. I was taught to stand up for myself, and know that nobody is better than I am because we are all equal. Rude people need to have the same medicine that they dish out, so give it back, I find it makes them back off. Do not let others put you in a bad place, it isnt worth it. You have to know that you are a beautiful person, and you must say this to yourself everyday, and learn to rise above it all. Learn to love yourself, if no one else will. Put yourself first, and dont try to be people pleaser so much. Humans are complex, and difficult. Dont stop being the nice person you are, but learn to not take the crap you are being dealt if you can. It depends on what you can handle, if someone called me a moron, I would put them in their place straight up, but thats me. Try and find people that are the same as you, maybe outside your school, dont sit at home waisting your life worrying about these people.