How can I be more outgoing?

How can i be more outgoing in person?

  • when i'm online, i'm so talkative and outgoing. i sometimes say things that i normally wouldn't say in person. i guess it's because no one can see me. how can i get that same confidence to be outgoing in person? i've been really shy/quiet all my life. i almost feel like i'm being fake by acting like this. but that's just me.

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    Talking with classmates around you (not when the teacher is talking, of course) is very helpful. You probably don't talk to them frequently, so it's a good way to build social skills, and who knows - you might learn something about them. Try it! If you're not confident about appearance, invest in a new hairstyle or new clothing - it makes you feel a lot better! You could even get your nails done. Whatever works. Joining a club with other who share your interests builds skills and friendship. Whether it be a hobby or something community-related, being part of a club gives you the sense of joy. I wish you success!

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Maybe start by meeting a few new people and talking to them.

i feel the same way i guess we're more confortable with our virtual world, i suggest u practice in public, act like you're behind the screen

It was weird reading this, because, well you're like me. for me... I hate my nose! I feel if I had plastic surgery id be much more outgoing / flirty. you maybe have a physical trait holding you back. But its time to get over it! OUT WIT DA OLD IN WIT DA NEW, after all, 2012 is near! sign up for a pilates class / jog with a friend / go for a hike / try something different

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