What does this dream mean?
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Before I tell u about my dream, let me build a background or context for it. So, there is a girl whom I met a couple months ago and we have similar thinking and we have been hanging out a lot in past two months now. We meet almost once or twice a week and it feels really good. I had feelings developed for her within just a month of meeting. But then after a month of our first meeting, we were talking about something and as the topic came by, she told me that she wants 'just' a friendship from me. On hearing that, I felt very bad. I hadn't told her about my feelings for her, and after hearing that, I had decided not at all to tell her about my feelings. Rather, I forced my conscious mind to expel those special feelings/love for her, and taught it to look at her just as a friend, and nothing more. It took around a week to 'cancel' those developed special feelings and to look at her just as a friend in entirely new way. But well, important thing is that I succeeded or at least I think so. =] Now, I don't see her anything more than just friend, and again, we have been hanging out for past one month now....in the same way, that is once or twice a week depending on our schedule. So, everything I've described here is story of past two months. Now, about dream, day before yesterday night, I saw that she had a very handsome boyfriend. They both were happy. Then one day, somehow, he came to my house and asked me not to text or call her anymore. I didn't like it but agreed to it so that they both could be happy! After that incident, somehow, I saw [as a personified myself of dream] that they both had problems and fights. And finally, one day, she kills him with meat knife in front of my eyes!!!!! I told the girl about this dream. She finds it funny and asked me what it means. I told her that it maybe because I think too much about her. I also asked her what does she think and she said she's not good at deciphering dreams although she does think that it does mean something. She said she rather asks other people the meaning of dream and suggested that I should do the same. She has also asked me to tell her the meaning of this dream once I come to know it. I have promised to tell her the meaning. So, here I'm trying to know the significance of that dream, in the context of what I have gone through in past two months. So, my questions are: [1] What does that dream mean? [2] I, personally, think that although my conscious mind has accepted her 'just' as a friend, somewhere deep in my heart or in my unconscious mind, there are still some feelings for her. And it thinks that she should come to me or I should go to her, as something more than a friend forgetting about any of her ex [she had a boyfriend a year ago as she told me. She also told me that she is happy that that ex-bf is not in her life any more. Also, when a few days ago, I asked her about her future plans and marriage and all that, she had told me that she had to first find a bf for getting married =D LOLOL =P ]. So, I think this dream is mix of all that......that she is finding a bf, my ex-feelings for her and all that crap. But anyway, if you also think that this dream means that I still have feelings for her in my unconscious mind, then I need an advice/following advice from you as my second question: Do you think that I should tell her this meaning of the dream [that it means I have feelings for her in my unconscious mind as more than a friend] to her? This is because I do not want to tell her that I had feelings for her, which I killed but they were buried in my unconscious mind and they are now out as zombies and this dream is result of that!!!! What do you think I should tell her the meaning of this dream if it means what I think??! Should I tell her truth or make up some other false reason? =) By the way, I've already told her a couple of weeks back that I usually kill the feelings within myself in case I had developed feelings for someone as I fear the rejection which could occur if I tell the other person about my feelings. And well, why did I tell her that? I told her that because although I may not do that every time, I had already done it for her and so, to clean my conscious mind from any residual feelings, I had to let it out and make my conscious mind totally cleansed off any special love feelings, and let conscious mind know that we are just friends!!!! P.S. I'm sorry for such a long question. I appreciate even if you made just the half-through! Thank you very much all, for your time!! =)
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Answer:
TL;DR. It means nothing. Dream mean nothing.
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