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How can I be more outgoing?

How can I be more confident and more outgoing (PLEASE PLEASE HELP! I will answer your question!)?

  • Okay, so I am really shy and I have a super outgoing friend who can talk to anyone! She talks with guys every day with no problem. I am really jealous because she is super outgoing and I am not, and so I try to be like her and start trying to be more outgoing, but I can't.... I want to be more popular like the other people in my class, but I am the silent one in the class where I only basically talk to my friend and that's basically it. I really really want to be more outgoing. But like in my Health class right now, this one girl is super outgoing and she makes comments out loud and makes every one laugh and stuff which I am really jealous because I want to be like her and be the funny one, but I just don't know how? Like, how am I supost to be outgoing in my Health/Gym class? Were in the Gym some times, and then the other times we go up to the Health room and learn about Sex-Ed... How am I supost to be outgoing? I don't like some of the people in my Gym class, and like most of the guys and girls are like really popular and I am not really that popular, so I don't know if they would really want to talk to me... How can I be more out going? How can I be apart of the crowd? There's not much to talk about in Gym because we mostly play Eclipse Ball and run for 8 minutes every day... Thanks!

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    I wasn't outgoing either when I was in school. But I still talked to people and was able to conversate. And still made friends. You don't have to be outgoing for people to like you just be nice and talk to them. Btw I was and still am a little shy in high school. Am 28 now I just worked and practiced being more sociable and am much more outgoing now.

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I was like that to. Just talk to the people your friends talk to and try to be friends with them. Then you'll feel more comfortable around them and you can be yourself

Lola Brown

dont take things to seruoisly , be freindly and happy and think of your self as awsome nomatter what you do and also very supportive freinds help , freinds auctully do influence coffidence alot

buy nicer clothes, it always boosts my confidence and if i got something nice on i want people to notice me

Dj

Hey girl. Don't be jelouse. In highschool, in any school just be yourself. If you want to be more confident and outgoing... ask your friend to join you into a conversation to get started. Or just try to do it on your own. If you really want to be more outgoing be yourself... but more towards people like open up let your not so shyness show! I was very shy. And I started to open up and talk to people.. even if its just a random hey how are you. Goodluck!

*;;*BabyGirlx0*;;*

1st, stop being repetitive, it gets annoying. And now for the real point: Popularity is extremely over rated. Most people in this world are terrible people or just plain old @$$holes. You dont owe it to them to impress them. Just because your friend does these things doesnt mean you should. You are your own person with your own qualities and interests. Having a few close friends is much better than having several fake friends. Being popular is like having a shadow; always there in your brightest moments but no where to be found in your darkest hour.

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