How To Win Him Back?

How do I win him back?

• So, I am in a long distance relationship with this guy, but I think it is over... I did a few things and now he won't return my calls or answer my messages on facebook... I cheated on him and he found out... I may have cheated about half a dozen times and flirted with a ton of other guys, I figured he wouldn't find out... we live so far apart, but I didn't delete some stuff on facebook... and he found out... I confessed, I thought honesty is better than lying... guess I was wrong. I kinda forced him to sext me, I also told him we were having sex when we got together, I never asked him. It probably didn't help when I said "Sext me, I'm horny" he said "No, I'm too tired" and I said "I'll just have somebody else do it" I was never there when he needed me, he would be in tears about something and I would just be "Oh" or "Okay", I wasn't there, I barely listened, I was insensitive and I regret it Even though I told him I kissed another guy, I tried to tell him it wasn't cheating! Which it wasn't cause I slapped the guy the next day! He wanted to take a girl (His best friend) WHO IS ******* HOT to homecoming! I totally freaked out and called him a cheater! He got pissed at me! I got drunk and almost dumped him twice, he is very against underage drinking, we are both underage. I yelled at him a lot The last issue is... I am on probation, When I told him this, he's like, "all this is too much" and now he won't talk to me. Okay, so I understand I screwed up a lot, but I can't lose him this guy is seriously amazing. He is an athlete and a musician, he says the sweetest things! He is so good to me, He is descent looking! He has a sexy voice! He is possibly the nicest guy ever, he puts the needs of other before himself, even though he was starving, he chose to not eat on a LONG ride home from a football game, so the player next to him who was feeling sick didn't have to smell the food, He is a gentleman all the time, he pays for people friends who don't have money when hanging out and doesn't ask for payment, he stayed up all night a while back to make sure a friend got home safely, He is smart, he is funny, he is romantic, he is incredible, I have to have him! I'm not totally sure we are done, but he said "this is all too much" and won't talk to me! I call him MANY times a day and I message him on facebook a lot He won't answer! A: How do I get him back? B: Are we broken up? C: Was my cheating so bad? D: Why did being honest not help him forgive me? E: Was me begging him to sext me so bad? F: Was my not listening to him so bad? G: How is him taking his ******* HOT best friend to homecoming not cheating? H: Why was my drunken anger so bad? I: Why was my yelling at him all the time so bad? J: Why was my legal trouble (probation due to harassment) so bad? K: How do I win him back/keep another girl from getting him? L: Okay, what I did was bad, but isn't him ignoring me and not telling me "it's over" just as bad?

• Answer:

  Cheating is bad