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Am I normal if I don't like going to nightclubs and getting drunk?

  • I get fed up with people saying that I'm not right, and I'm boring etc. Just because I don't like going to nightclubs and getting drunk. I have no problem going out with friends, going to the park, cinema, bowling, etc. But then when it involves getting drunk etc. I just don't enjoy it. Many people seem to think that in order to have a good time, you have to get drunk. But to be honest I find that quite sad and a little silly. I also find it boring. All the times I have gone to nightclubs with friends, they have got so drunk that it felt like I was looking after a bunch of psychotic patients. It was just awful. And also, I've had girls I don't know trying to pick fights with me for no reason and guys harassing me. I just can't be bothered with all the drama and humiliation. All my friends want to do is just go out get drunk every other day. (possibly 5 days a week). And they never want to do anything else. Ive not been out clubbing for over a year. I'm also shy and slim and hate the way I look.

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    No your not normal your special you don't need to drink to feel like lifes worth living you have your head perfectly on your shoulder and that's somthing to be proud of you will be respected greatly for it one day :)

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Don't worry about that. You're just fine. I've never been clubbing and I never want to. I don't mind going out with my friends but I'm Straight Edge (Don't drink, smoke or do drugs) and the reason why I don't ever want to go clubbing is because I don't like being surrounded by so many people. So if anything, in other people's eyes I'm probably worse than you so, don't worry about it xD

Kamiko Saldana

It's normal, don't hate the way you look. Be strong don't let the guys harass you. Those guys are pathetic jerks.

Gabby

You sound like me! I just go with them to places they go and stuff but will have soft drinks or water. So yeah, you're normal to me :D and their livers will pay the price.

M

That's normal! Your more muture than most people..

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apple guava

There's nothing wrong with you at all !

Jessica

If you're not conforming then be proud of yourself. A lot of people don't question the fact that they don't like it, because they don't want to stand up for themselves. I know exactly what you mean. I'm normal, and i don't like clubbing. The reason why you stay sober(er?) than the rest is because you are more mature. Think of it this way, at least your not damaging your liver ;) being an individual, and not a follower, this will help you find friends that are similar to you, and hobbies that excite you more. There's nothing wrong with shy people, and if you hate the way you look, appreciate that things about you that you like :) You're probably shy because you lack self confidence, but that doesn't mean clubbing and being harassed by men will help :) hope this helped :)

Georgia

You are not alone. Though i dont agree with all that you said, i also dislike going to nightclubs. But i still enjoy getting faded. The part i hate about it is all the small talk with people i don't know, dont care to ever know, and most likely not remember the next day. I would only go there to hook up with someone, but that is not in the cards since i have a girlfriend. So what's left? Simply observing other people. But i dont wanna waste my time doing that either, so i just choose not to attend. I'd much rather be with my true friends. I cant tell you the amount of times where i've "met" some people downtown, talked about how cool we are and that we're gonna hang out, and then never heard from them again...it's retarded. Drink with your friends. It is more worth your time.

Spencer

nothing wrong with you at all. i don't care for the feeling of being drunk and learned a long time ago how to tell when i needed to stop drinking to avoid being drunk. and i have never liked the meat market bar mentality i don't mind crowds when i go to concerts, sporting events, or things like our local renaissance faire or creole music festival. and i also enjoy going to the park or beach and bowling, hiking, and backpacking you stick to your guns a stay out of bars if you don't like bars. and feel good being slim it is way healthier than being heavy you sound like a intelligent young lady to me, don't change for anyone

old man on the hill

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