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Cant seem to get hard...?

  • Every time im out with my girl i get hard thinking about all the stuff we're going to do. But when it comes down to it, i cant seem to get hard. I even tried masturbating during, nothing. Even when she went down on me, i couldn't seem to get bigger. Now, im not shy about my "thing", as it is above average, but on any case, i dont understand why my "thing" refuses to go UP. Once i get home...i have NO trouble getting hard. With or without masturbation. HELP

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    damnn i have the same problem, im a 16 year old guy

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So it is not physiological. I think it is psychological. Don't stress, relax, because stress can cause loss of erection during sex. Go slowly, and do the foreplay longer. You need to reprogram your mind in order to see sex differently.

dude the same is happening to me like yesterday we went upstairs and nothing and today on the couch and she was even in her school uniform to look sluty we can make out but its like not getting big at all like as if it were cold but the heater was on

perhaps its performance anxiety or something of the like. I've experienced this a few times myself and it sucks...

you get anxious or nervous and that can make it not get hard like its supposed to

maybe your gay ?

dude the same is happening to me like yesterday we went upstairs and nothing and today on the couch and she was even in her school uniform to look sluty we can make out but its like not getting big at all like as if it were cold but the heater was on

So it is not physiological. I think it is psychological. Don't stress, relax, because stress can cause loss of erection during sex. Go slowly, and do the foreplay longer. You need to reprogram your mind in order to see sex differently.

Steve B

damnn i have the same problem, im a 16 year old guy

perhaps its performance anxiety or something of the like. I've experienced this a few times myself and it sucks...

Gregory

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