Would it actually be normal to keep on thinking about making love all the time ?

• First off, I'm not trying to be gross or disgusting so please don't report this question, this is a serious question and i need your help. I don't really know the real reason why i am like this, i always thinking about making love or having sex all of the time. I don't know if making love & sex is the same other not. Anyway, i'm like crazilly horny all of the time i think about sex all of the time. There are certain times i think of sex of different types like sometimes i think about oral sex and sometimes intercourse. Like last night i had a dream that i gave oral to an beautiful girl and she was satisfied so she went down on me and gave me oral back, i dreamed that her head was bopping up and down and she was awesome. Next thing i knew i woke up and my bed was all wet all over the matress and there was no girl. I think this is turning into a problem now. I'm 19 years old and i am a complete virgin i never had any type of sex before and i'm really horny. Does anyone know what i could do to stop thinking about this all of the time ? It's getting into my college work and i can't do any work. Would it actually be normal to be like this ? I really need your help because I'm afraid of failing my classes.

• Answer:

  It is NOT turning into a problem. You are male -- all males are sexual almost continually. YES it is COMPLETELY normal to be thinking the way you are -- until you get too old to do so. I have never known a healthy male who wasn't exactly like you are (well, with focus on guys if gay or girls if straight). You had a wet dream, that mostly indicates that you are not masturbating enough. You should be doing it more, that will reduce the risk of wet dreams and give you actual pleasure, rather than just the release of nocturnal emissions. Stop worrying, love yourself, love your penis, enjoy it as often as you want -- and find someone to have sex with -- that will reduce it considerably. Kindest thoughts, Hermes