My fiance abuses my dog and mortifies the dog and yet blames me and refuses to apologize... help?

• So I have had my fiancé for a year, and we are set to be married in September… She had just moved in with me a little over a week ago… Now, I have a dog, Teddy. which I spoil rotten, hes a bulldog and he basically runs the house… Now, she knows this, and thinks it’s cute that I spoil him and give him people food as treaties, cook him some filet mignon with a side of steamed veggies, and let him watch tv on his spot on the couch all day… Well, the other day, he was a good boy, so I asked my fiancé to fix him his favorite treat… Peanut Butter and Jelly with a sprinkle of cranberries… And I also explained that he would only eat it if it is on white bread, cut in FOURS with the crust removed… Well, I get a call from her frantic and panicking that Teddy had bit her and has been growling at her in the corner ever since… So I rushed home from work, speeding down the highway and when I finally get there, I see the PB&J in the bowl cut in TWOS, WITH CRUST on WHEAT bread… And to top it off, she had the TV OFF with her sitting in HIS spot… Then later found out she cursed and put Teddy down during the incident So I was started hugging him and patting his back and he was all shook up, I was reassuring him things are going to be okay, I scolded her and said no wonder why he bit you, you brought it upon yourself… Well, she got mad and slapped me across my face and left, she wants to call of the wedding… How can I explain that this is HER FAULT because if she prepared his food the way I had instructed this whole catastrophe could have been prevented? What doesnt she get?!?!

• Answer:

  One thing you need to understand is that, you can't just blame your fiance while she's hurt. I mean for pete sake its a dog.was it worth getting your fiance all mad at you well if was i guess you really dont have to worry about reassuring her it was her fault because honestly your relationship would never work.