What do you look for in a guy?

What sort of guy do I look like? ? ?

  • PLEASE READ the whole question before responding...thanks. I don't mean do I look nice, or caring, etc. I mean purely physical. I'll admit that I have an extremely low opinion of my looks and I'm pretty much trying to confirm that. That doesn't mean I'm looking for someone to say I'm ugly or attractive....more what kind of guy I look like on first impression. I'm 6'3", around 240 (estimate), and unfortunately, being bald isn't an option....if I had my hair, there's no way I would ever, ever have it this short. My plan WAS to lose 100 lbs in order to drastically change my appearance. I wanted to get rid of my chest and shoulders. I mention my weight loss plans not to ask if I should lose that much weight, but just to further illustrate how I feel about how I look. To me, being big and bald is not attractive, so telling me that lots of girls would love a big bald guy is only going to make me feel worse. I dont care if "bald is in"....hearing some girl tell me she'd love some big man to protect her or, worse, to make her feel smaller by comparison is pretty much like telling me I'm ugly. Oh, and the animal in the pic is an opossum...a friend of mine does wildlife rehab. The other guy in the first pic is Crispin Glover, prob. best known as George McFly in "Back to the Future". http://s385.photobucket.com/albums/oo296/curseofdolkite/

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    you look like the guy in college who i wanted to invite to the party, but i didnt want to offend because you probably had church in the morning

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You seemed to have disqualified any compliments...lol...What I saw in the picture (at first impression), a great looking guy...I think too many times people fall on the thinking that if they see their own faults (what seems a fault to themselves) it must be what others focus on as a fault...and that is not true. I'm sorry you cannot see in the mirror what I see, and or others see in you...Have a good night...Take care.

Heart2Heart

You seemed to have disqualified any compliments...lol...What I saw in the picture (at first impression), a great looking guy...I think too many times people fall on the thinking that if they see their own faults (what seems a fault to themselves) it must be what others focus on as a fault...and that is not true. I'm sorry you cannot see in the mirror what I see, and or others see in you...Have a good night...Take care.

you look like the guy in college who i wanted to invite to the party, but i didnt want to offend because you probably had church in the morning

chris h

Ok, I'll do my best here. Just looking at the B&W pic, I can't tell your size or that you are bald. Having said that,based on that pic, I thought you looked like the romantic slightly mysterious, but likes to snuggle type, which is attractive to some women. Losing 100 pounds would make you look sick/ ill of which is not attractive. I would stay healthy, eat right and exercise. Besides, who you are on the inside will show no matter what you look like on the outside.

First off if you lost 100lbs you would be severely under weight for your height. Secondly, I think you are extremely attractive. That being said, you would be for attractive if you projected a sense of confidence. If you think loosing weight would help you with this than I say do it. But just don't go over board. Good Luck.

Nursenik86

I'm not too sure what you are asking then, but you definitely should not worry too much about your looks. You aren't bad looking at all and honestly I think the hair looks perfectly fine. I think with the weight loss you would look even better, but you really aren't half as bad as you think you are. I'm pretty sure. It seems as if you have really low self-esteem. Cheer up. Besides, confidence is sexier than a great body and good hair.

Shay

Ok, I'll do my best here. Just looking at the B&W pic, I can't tell your size or that you are bald. Having said that,based on that pic, I thought you looked like the romantic slightly mysterious, but likes to snuggle type, which is attractive to some women. Losing 100 pounds would make you look sick/ ill of which is not attractive. I would stay healthy, eat right and exercise. Besides, who you are on the inside will show no matter what you look like on the outside.

Rebecca1023

Honestly, you seem like a guy that I would want to start a conversation with just randomly. You know how there are those strangers you see in public that come across as creepy and you don't want to even make eye contact? Yeah, well you're the complete opposite of that. I'm not going to give you the "everyone is beautiful in their own way" thing, I honestly do think you look fine. You're definitely not ugly, and you have something attractive about you. Maybe your eyes? I can't pin it specifically.

jelloola #j'aime l'amour

Honestly, you seem like a guy that I would want to start a conversation with just randomly. You know how there are those strangers you see in public that come across as creepy and you don't want to even make eye contact? Yeah, well you're the complete opposite of that. I'm not going to give you the "everyone is beautiful in their own way" thing, I honestly do think you look fine. You're definitely not ugly, and you have something attractive about you. Maybe your eyes? I can't pin it specifically.

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