Is the prostrate muscle responsible for male orgasm?

New to This: Uncontrollable Muscle Contractures/Pain Before Orgasm?

• I am a young adult female in my early twenties, and I have just recently started becoming, in a way, sexually active. All we have been doing has been manual stimulation, but when he does this to me, it mostly is more painful than anything (and he's a very gentle person). When stimulating the clitoris, I feel the blood drain from all my extremities and face (it produces an "asleep" feeling). But then my muscles in my hands and arms begin to contract painfully, I can't control them, and they resemble contractures evident in the older population. It took forever to relieve afterward, and I have been unable to orgasm at all. I'm looking for some real serious help. I have pondered about a vitamin deficiency but I am unsure. Has anyone heard of a problem like this? He has attempted many times to get me over the hump but it never seems to get any better.

• Answer:

  Honestly, dear, go to your doctor. I personally have not heard of this before now, but it might very well be just your body reacting to the orgasm itself, and you're feeling the reactions so much that you can no longer feel the orgasm. Either way, make sure to consult your doctor about this for a professional opinion.