What are the different parties' manifestos?

Why do people always cuss at parties?

• I went to a Halloween party tonight and I thought it was going to be an actual proper party. For an example, I hate going to rowdy parties because I am so offended by people drinking, using foul language, and I like actual birthday parties that are more fancy, proper, and nice where everyone behaves themselves and that are alcohol free. When I was a little kid, I would always have my party with alcohol free, just have cake, open up gifts, have my birthday at Chuck E. Cheese or a really safe place where everyone behaved themselves and weren’t allowed to swear. I am used to those kinds of parties where they aren’t vulgar. However, this is my first actual real party I went to. It was a Halloween costume party. Usually when I went to Halloween parties, they were for kids and it was alcohol free and no one was allowed to swear or go out of hand. Because of my autism, I am used to those kinds of parties. My friend invited me to a Halloween party bash tonight and I told him I didn’t want to go because I was offended by swearing and by people drinking. Then he tricked me and said: “Oh just relax! It will be fun. I promise. I won’t let anyone offend you and use foul language. It wont be loud.” And I trusted him so I went and when I got there, I WAS REALLY OFFENDED! People were drinking booze, smoking cigarettes, smoking pot, and dirty tramps were in costumes and everyone kept laughing so I went over and talked to someone and wanted to have a nice proper conversation and said: “how are you today?” and she said: “JEZ What the f*ck?! Loosen up a little bit and have a f*cking drink!” and I screamed in my autistic way and said: “YOU AREN’T SUPPOSED TO SWEAR!!!! I AM OFFENDED!” And people kept throwing beer bottles, going nuts, and swearing and my friend was talking to a group of people and I told him I wanted to go home because I didn’t like these kind of wild parties and he just told me to take a hike and eat sh*t! then he said: “YOU AREN’T GOING TO RUIN MY GOOD TIME, JACKA*S!” And I was really uncomfortable and I didn’t belong in that kind of party. Everyone kept swearing, saying the F word a lot of times pervasively and really kept being too improper and drinking like crazy and I didn’t drink anything and just sat in a corner being uncomfortable because even the girls kept swearing and making me really offended that I even cried and didn’t know what to do! My friend also had no respect for me and kept swearing, using the F word, along with the girls also saying too many F bombs, and this language really offended me! Why is it parties like this, there is always swearing, drinking, and X-Rated stuff involved?! Why couldn’t my friend warn me? Instead he told me it wouldn’t offend me. He knows I am autistic and sensitive to foul language when people behave improper! Can someone tell me what I should do about this next time and how I can avoid improper x-rated parties that aren’t for kids? I would have thought even though this party was at night, he would be around proper people that don’t’ swear! Parties like this are so vulgar which I try to stay away from!

• Answer:

  You would appear to be too young for parties as the usual ingredients of a successful adult party are alcohol, music and loud conversation. I suggest you stay away from parties until you have turned 21