How do i find a person?

Where and how can I find a person to complement me with my sexuality?

• My current question is in the light of the answers I received to my last question on Yahoo! Answers, which goes as follows: "My Sexuality Dilema: What's Your Opinion And Advice? I'm 32 years old. Since the age of eleven or twelve, I have had a rather peculiar condition as regards my sexuality: Instead of feeling sexually attracted toward the girls and womenfolks, I feel attraction toward men aged a lot higher than myself. My desire is always to feel and explore their body -- bosom and genitalia --, exchanging hugs and kisses and sharing their bed, BUT I NEVER FEEL ANY URGE FOR ANAL SEX -- whether be acting as top or bottom, nor do I have any lust for nudity. All I seek is a close contact with an aged person of my erotic liking, and that causes me to ejaculate. In almost all of my sexual fantacies and dreams, I find myself enjoying an expereince of this sort or being wishful of being such and such a person's wife, or female sexual partner. I once even had sex with a women so as to give myself the taste of the feeling so I could get my sexuality straightened. but the condition still remains -- despite that and the fact that I don't have -- and haven't ever had -- any male companion to cater to my desire. I'm nowadays studying at a university in an open and free co-education environment, where the males and the females freely intermingle, but, while I do enjoy talking to my female peers here, the only sexual urge I have ever felt during my one-and-a-half year of stay here has been toward the male aged people that I have come into contact with -- among them three faculty members (with ages nearly 61, 64, and 75, respectively), the director of hostels (aged around 60), and a hostel caretaker (aged 59), for instance. In the above paragraph I've tried my best to describe accurately and to the point my actual situation. Please feel free, however, to ask any questions to enable you to get to the heart of the matter. I hope you could give me some good and well-thought-out advice on how best I can cope with my condition. Regards." I've constantly and for quite some time been on the look-out, without much success, for a person who I can strike a match with given my sexuality. I live in a rather conservative society, where there's a great deal of restriction on what kind of image you have to project to others so as to live with dignity. I'm not sure if my religion approves of my preferred way of seeking pleasure at all; I've been of late trying to get a judgement from the religious experts but in vain so far. I wonder if and how I can ever come by someone of my liking who I can appeal to!!

• Answer:

  I couldn't actually wade thru that slog and blather. You can't expect compliments if you're no good at it. BTW the few words I did catch, TMI! TMI! TMI!