I feel weird making eye contact with random people as we talk? Should I?
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It feels creepy, no matter the situation especially if with a girl. I usually try and not make eye contact because I thought it was being polite, I don't want to scare people off. But it seems as though even when I do this, people always directly look me in the eyes or want to look me in the eyes. Should I start looking people in the eyes, is that considered ok or is it weird like how I feel when I make eye contact them for a period of time. It just feels strange after looking each other in the eye for 2 minutes straight. I was told if you don't make eye contact your either being shady or hiding something, I'm just doing it to make them feel comfortable around me. I feel the only reason to look someone in the eyes as you talk is if its your girlfriend or something. It just seems way to personal doing it with a stranger. Hm...maybe that's why I don't have a girlfriend, I always look away as they talk to me...
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Answer:
Thats exactly how i am when make eye contact with people for more than a split second then i feel awkward but over time i have learned that you need to make eye contact with your significant other or whoever you may be speaking to i see it as a sign of respect and showing them that you care and you are truely listening to what they are saying to you
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It is important to make eye contact with others as it shows that you are connecting with them and trust them.If you don't look them in the eye occasionally they will become suspicious maintain eye contact but don't stare as that is also creepy
I feel weird if the person I am talking to is NOT making eye contact with me... the fact that they feel uncomfortable starts to make me uncomfortable. It is also comes across as you are either: A) insecure B) uninterested in the convo/distracted C) Disrespectful to the other person.
well dont look into thier eyes for like 10 minutes straight, but yeah it shows that you care what they have to say. acctually tho in asian countrys its disrespectful to and no one looks eachother in the eye
Thats exactly how i am when make eye contact with people for more than a split second then i feel awkward but over time i have learned that you need to make eye contact with your significant other or whoever you may be speaking to i see it as a sign of respect and showing them that you care and you are truely listening to what they are saying to you
Charlie
I feel weird if the person I am talking to is NOT making eye contact with me... the fact that they feel uncomfortable starts to make me uncomfortable. It is also comes across as you are either: A) insecure B) uninterested in the convo/distracted C) Disrespectful to the other person.
lil_Qti
It is important to make eye contact with others as it shows that you are connecting with them and trust them.If you don't look them in the eye occasionally they will become suspicious maintain eye contact but don't stare as that is also creepy
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well dont look into thier eyes for like 10 minutes straight, but yeah it shows that you care what they have to say. acctually tho in asian countrys its disrespectful to and no one looks eachother in the eye
David
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