Will this be a blue Christmas for you?

Christmas Gift Ideas? Would appreciate female responders!?

• I don't know what kind of gift I should get to this girl that I like. She is a customer at the store which I work at. I want to get her a Tiffany's Blue Bracelet which will match her beautiful blue eyes. However, I don't want her to think that I want something in return (sex). I am not that type of guy, I want to treat her like a lady. Furthermore, I don't want to start a relationship because of certain reasons and I don't have time for a relationship. Therefore, I want to know which will be an appropriate gift a Tiffany's Blue Bracelet, Tiffany Blue Scarf, or just get her a Nordstrom gift card. Some have suggested all of them are inappropriate, but I am going to get her something and I want to know which is approriate. A little more detail on how well I know her. Ealier in the year, I got her a bottle of vodka which she was looking for and couldn't find it. Ever since, whenever she comes to the store she gets into my checkstand we flirt ask about life. She is nanny, she always comes into the store with the kids, so I am planning to get this christmas cookie coloring kits for the kids, so she won't feel I only did the gifts for her. So which gift should I get her, A).Tiffany Bracelet, B). Tiffany Scarf, C). $200 Nordstrom Gift Card D). $100 AMC Movie Theater Gift Card (And tell her to go to the movies with her little nieces). E). Some other gift - give me some ideas. Also I have a feeling she drinks a little bit too much, because after I gave her the bottle she asked me of another alochol, but this time I did not get it for her. That is why I am planning on to give this book from author Jim Rogers which he gives a fatherly advice (the book is more like a love letter from the author to his daughters) about life and how to be successful. You think is that appropriate along with one of the gifts? Also, instead of being critical of my gifts and calling me crazy stalker, please give me your gift idea which I will very appreciated. Otherwise, do not respond please. I am here for advice, not to be criticized.

• Answer:

  Dude, this question again?! Since you feel the need to repeat it I feel the need to do the same. You are never going to get anyone to agree to this unless they're people who are searching for their one and only sugar daddy. My god! This doesn't take a woman with a PHD to answer this question. Only you truly know her. For all we know she could take the Tiffany anything and assume she can gold dig you to death. Buying gifts for kids you don't know can come off as trying to hard. Kids are taught to not take gifts and candy from strangers or people they hardly know and they may take getting gifts from you in a negative way. They may think you'll kidnap them as they've been warned by the parents or they may pick up on a fake sense about you and think you're trying to replace their dad. Edit: They could even think your trying to get them to instantly respect you. Just because your older than them doesn't mean the have to. Respect is earned. Even though you have told us how you feel for her and trust me, I believe it's genuine, the kids may not take to kindly to you and will come up with their own ideas of your character whether they are true or false.