If a guy likes you..why on earth would he just ignore your friend request on facebook?!!?

If he only has 30 friends.. then maybe his parents won't let him accept other peoples requests unless they know them

If he only has 30 friends.. then maybe his parents won't let him accept other peoples requests unless they know them

I was planning on re-assuring you re: this guy. How he may have a crush, and feels insecure. He may even feel (since others have told you he likes you..and he, presumably, knows this)..is stricken with embarassment because your Friend Request came in. Maybe he's so mortified... I WAS going to say that, until I read your details! - Now I think YOU are being insecure! It could be ANYTHING. Maybe it's a shared computer. If he has nosy, butt-in-ski, siblings, who're taking it upon themselves TO TELL YOU HE LIKES YOU, he has good reason to not trust them on Facebook. You KNOW they have access! He didn't say "NO/DECLINE", he said "not now". So..the other friends are probably people he's talking to..ABOUT YOU. hahah. - You're being way too over-reactive. Honestly. You want to BLOCK him and just chuck the whole thing!? - No. Just let it sit there. He'll reply. He really will. Once you two talk, you have to discuss all the pot-stirring, evesdropping, 'little old ladies' around, who won't mind their own biz. Not that your friendship has to be a secret..but if people are butting in, then they are no longer in the loop. Keep stuff PRIVATE. Everyone doesn't have to be privy to who you like, if he likes you back, when you chat, what you say..what your status is. YEEESH! - Don't over-react. Be calm. Let the Request sit there. You were confident and pro-active to do it. He'll reply. Just be cool, calm & collected. Don't sabotage this relationship before it even starts. Why create problems where there aren't any? Un-necessary.. Don't project bad thoughts or a negative outcome to this. No reason to at all. Think POSITIVELY. Be straightforward. No games. - Relationships are supposed to make one feel good, happy, safe, secure, listened to.. NOT constant miscommunications, misunderstandings, and hasty decisions. What are you.. a SCORPIO..!? You STING before you think!? Sleep on any decision. No blocking potential bf's on whim. - Good luck! ======================================…

Maybe he's not that into you. Flirtations don't necessarily pan out. Going by your spelling, grammar and vocab. possibly he thinks you look good, but not smart enough to bother with. I ignore people I don't want to be bothered by frequently.

Hmm maybe your friends think you don't know those girls. I have this problem too man there are some girls I want to add from my high school but some of them won't add me and one of them blocked me for no reason and they were friendly to me at school and I knew them. They are acting like they don't know me just because they know some people who didn't go to my high school or maybe they can't tell it's me on fb. I hate girls who are like that on fb.

Maybe he's not that into you. Flirtations don't necessarily pan out. Going by your spelling, grammar and vocab. possibly he thinks you look good, but not smart enough to bother with. I ignore people I don't want to be bothered by frequently.