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Traditional Kwanzaa dinner dishes?

When you are invited over to someone's house for dinner, is it required of you to help do the dishes?

  • My friend invites me over to dinner from time to time, and she always expects me to help do the dishes right after we eat. I always help her clear the table, but I just want to know the proper etiquette on dishes. I also need to point out I have her over alot too, and she never helps me do the dishes, so last time I was at her house I didn't help and she made comments the whole time about wishing someone would help with the dishes. That got me wondering about what is really proper on this whole issue..THANKS

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    ~sounds like your friend is not being fair. Continue to help her do the dishes at her place. Then, next time she comes over to your place, ask her for her help and comment "its really nice that we help each other with the dishes when we get together. It makes it so much easier"~

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it is not required but it is very helpful to do something to help out afterwards.

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it is not required but it is very helpful to do something to help out afterwards.

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~sounds like your friend is not being fair. Continue to help her do the dishes at her place. Then, next time she comes over to your place, ask her for her help and comment "its really nice that we help each other with the dishes when we get together. It makes it so much easier"~

~SheSul~

Because you added in the part about her not helping you do the dishes when she's a guest at your house, you were right. If she doesn't help me, i wouldn't help her. But, if i'm going to someone's house for dinner for the first time, I always offer to help. Think of it as you're not required to help, you're required to offer help as a thank you for dinner.

holly

Because you added in the part about her not helping you do the dishes when she's a guest at your house, you were right. If she doesn't help me, i wouldn't help her. But, if i'm going to someone's house for dinner for the first time, I always offer to help. Think of it as you're not required to help, you're required to offer help as a thank you for dinner.

holly

Rather your friend(?) offers to help you or not it would be polite for you to still offer to help her with the dishes but the next time she is at your house use her own line on her line about wishing she had some one to help with the dishes or better yet the next time you are are at her house if she says it again,just reply-Yeah! That's how I feel when you're at my place...Good Luck

lady D

Rather your friend(?) offers to help you or not it would be polite for you to still offer to help her with the dishes but the next time she is at your house use her own line on her line about wishing she had some one to help with the dishes or better yet the next time you are are at her house if she says it again,just reply-Yeah! That's how I feel when you're at my place...Good Luck

lady D

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