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Does anyone believe in Karma?

Is it possible to delay karma?

  • The father of my unborn child got another woman pregnant behind my back. In the course of our relationship I did so much for this man I don't have the time or space to go in to it. Anyway he's now engaged to the other woman, yet has tried to sleep with me, which I promptly turned him down. After I did that he changed his phone number and will have nothing to do with my pregnancy although I have invited him to be a part of it. And as is typical of him he and fiance are lovey dovey once again and I am the bad evil broad from hell. Since he first alerted me (through a text message) that he had gotten another woman pregnant I've wished with every fiber of my being that he would get his "come-uppence". That was 5 months ago. I know that God and the universe work in their own time, and I'm told that the timing will be just right. I wonder though can you delay someone's karma by focusing on it too much? I know we are supposed to forgive and forget, but everyday I think about how this guy just seems to have no moral compass. He is like a sociopath who will blame anyone or anything else for all the disgusting things he continually does. This question is only for those who believe in karma so obviously if you don't, then please don't respond.

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    Delay someone's karma by focusing on it too much? No, I'm very sure you can't. Idk what religion you belong but according to mine you can't control anybody's else karma. You ca control only your karma. You can cancel your bad karma by doing equal or more amount of good things. But not other person's karma. Karma is in action and you have no control over other person's actions and choices he/she makes. Simply by focusing on karma to delay or cancel it is not possible. If it would everybody could do it with meditation and still do bad things. That's just not how it works.

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God and Karma don't belong in the same sentence. Lady you need to get a paternity test and nail the guy for support. That's the american way. no Karma no god. Just the legal system. the best religion that screws everyone equally.

Brodusgus

God and Karma don't belong in the same sentence. Lady you need to get a paternity test and nail the guy for support. That's the american way. no Karma no god. Just the legal system. the best religion that screws everyone equally.

Rob

Delay someone's karma by focusing on it too much? No, I'm very sure you can't. Idk what religion you belong but according to mine you can't control anybody's else karma. You ca control only your karma. You can cancel your bad karma by doing equal or more amount of good things. But not other person's karma. Karma is in action and you have no control over other person's actions and choices he/she makes. Simply by focusing on karma to delay or cancel it is not possible. If it would everybody could do it with meditation and still do bad things. That's just not how it works.

Ainar

You can delay evil by spreading the truth.

If you truly believe in Karma then just be content with the belief that he will be damaging himself a lot more than he is damaging you, the other woman or either of the children he has fathered. Believe me I know you are angry but you have to concern yourself with your own Karma, getting angry and acting out of anger is sure to attract more bad Karma because Karma is not the same as 'serves you right', it is about actions and their results, it is quite scientific and the repercussions are more about learning than punishment. You and this other woman are right now learning what happens when you choose poorly and make the wrong decisions and these sorts of karmas resulting from mistakes as opposed to wrongdoings tend to have instant results. This doesn't mean you did wrong and will be punished, that is how many westerners see Karma because it's like a 'Biblical Karma', but the Eastern way of looking at it is not the same, and wrongdoings on a massive scale such as this man's deliberate and heartless acts may not have immediate repercussions because in order for them to learn what they need to learn they may be reborn into a difficult life, possibly not even human, and so their karma carries over into the next life. I don't think that it is possible to delay karmic actions by focusing on them too much though, no, but I do think you can drive yourself mad. As impossible as it may seem now you need to move on and forgive him. He doesn't deserve it but it is not for him, it's for you. He won't benefit from your forgiveness, you will, and your kid.

surfinbernard

If you truly believe in Karma then just be content with the belief that he will be damaging himself a lot more than he is damaging you, the other woman or either of the children he has fathered. Believe me I know you are angry but you have to concern yourself with your own Karma, getting angry and acting out of anger is sure to attract more bad Karma because Karma is not the same as 'serves you right', it is about actions and their results, it is quite scientific and the repercussions are more about learning than punishment. You and this other woman are right now learning what happens when you choose poorly and make the wrong decisions and these sorts of karmas resulting from mistakes as opposed to wrongdoings tend to have instant results. This doesn't mean you did wrong and will be punished, that is how many westerners see Karma because it's like a 'Biblical Karma', but the Eastern way of looking at it is not the same, and wrongdoings on a massive scale such as this man's deliberate and heartless acts may not have immediate repercussions because in order for them to learn what they need to learn they may be reborn into a difficult life, possibly not even human, and so their karma carries over into the next life. I don't think that it is possible to delay karmic actions by focusing on them too much though, no, but I do think you can drive yourself mad. As impossible as it may seem now you need to move on and forgive him. He doesn't deserve it but it is not for him, it's for you. He won't benefit from your forgiveness, you will, and your kid.

surfinbernard

You can delay evil by spreading the truth.

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