What do you talk about with your boyfriend?

What to talk about with my boyfriend?

  • Im 14. Whenever i see him i just dont know what to say or talk about. We have no classes together and the only time i see him on a school day would be in the beginning of school, lunch, and after school. What could i talk about with him? I already know a whole lot about him and im just running out of stuff to talk about.

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    Hi there! Here's the thing about that type of relationship: Conversations in a relationship full of love and affection should just come out in a landslide and out of the blue without even thinking about it. Well, you did mention that you're 14yo and maybe you still need to do a little bit more exploring on the guy preference. What I just said really didn't help on what you were asking for I hope at least it's an eye-opener for you. But you also mentioned that you don't see each other that much, which is kind of great for your problem! Here are some things you could do: 1. Since you don't have classes together, why not talk about the drab and excitement of each classes you have? Like for example if someone farted in class or you caught your classmate cheating or passing love notes in class would be some good tidbits of conversation. (one good point, ask him as well of any interesting stuff on his side) 2. You said that you don't see each other during the weekends or on non-school days, then why not share everything that happened during those days? Anything random will do if he's also that into you.(again,one good point, ask him as well of any interesting stuff on his side) 3. Even if you already know a lot about him, it takes a lifetime to get to really know a person. What you're seeing is just the superficial side of him. What you see and know on the surface wouldn't hurt but if you really like this guy then it would be great to try to know him better. Try asking about his interests; if he's into politics, try to ask his points of view; if he's into sports, talk to him about but don't pretend to know that you're an expert on it, he'd just get irritated. 4. Try to find something that you're both interested in like animals, horror movies, food, soap operas, TV series, video games, etc. (the possibilities of you having one thing in common is a lot) I hate to say this but you guys are still young and it would also be great if you don't do anything that would jeopardize the opportunity to enjoy your youth. If you know what I mean. ;)

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if u dont have like 100 things to talk to him about every time u see him, then ur relationship is pretty much over. ur only 14! trust me, ur not gunna marry this kid, so break up w/ him already & enjoy being a teen... u dont need a bf right now!

Muzic Nerd

if u dont have like 100 things to talk to him about every time u see him, then ur relationship is pretty much over. ur only 14! trust me, ur not gunna marry this kid, so break up w/ him already & enjoy being a teen... u dont need a bf right now!

Muzic Nerd

Go out. Talk about this very very very small problem with him and do something else than TALK. lol

Mike

Hi there! Here's the thing about that type of relationship: Conversations in a relationship full of love and affection should just come out in a landslide and out of the blue without even thinking about it. Well, you did mention that you're 14yo and maybe you still need to do a little bit more exploring on the guy preference. What I just said really didn't help on what you were asking for I hope at least it's an eye-opener for you. But you also mentioned that you don't see each other that much, which is kind of great for your problem! Here are some things you could do: 1. Since you don't have classes together, why not talk about the drab and excitement of each classes you have? Like for example if someone farted in class or you caught your classmate cheating or passing love notes in class would be some good tidbits of conversation. (one good point, ask him as well of any interesting stuff on his side) 2. You said that you don't see each other during the weekends or on non-school days, then why not share everything that happened during those days? Anything random will do if he's also that into you.(again,one good point, ask him as well of any interesting stuff on his side) 3. Even if you already know a lot about him, it takes a lifetime to get to really know a person. What you're seeing is just the superficial side of him. What you see and know on the surface wouldn't hurt but if you really like this guy then it would be great to try to know him better. Try asking about his interests; if he's into politics, try to ask his points of view; if he's into sports, talk to him about but don't pretend to know that you're an expert on it, he'd just get irritated. 4. Try to find something that you're both interested in like animals, horror movies, food, soap operas, TV series, video games, etc. (the possibilities of you having one thing in common is a lot) I hate to say this but you guys are still young and it would also be great if you don't do anything that would jeopardize the opportunity to enjoy your youth. If you know what I mean. ;)

Asher

Ask about all of his classes, if anything funny happened in his day, if he heard about some story you hear, you can try and be a little funny and ask him if he learned anything new today, what his plans are later, then you can also tell him about your day, tell him something funny that happened in your day, and you should also try and find things that interest you both...if you still are having trouble than maybe you guys just don't have anything in common

Caitlin

things like what you've done as a child or talk to him about how his day was. talk about you dream or something. what you plan for the future or problems you have. if somethings wrong talk to him about it. play the secret game where you tell your secrets to eachother :) hope i helped you hun. good luck!

Jade

Movies, funny classes, TV shows, whatever you both are intested in, etc

Omar

Ask about all of his classes, if anything funny happened in his day, if he heard about some story you hear, you can try and be a little funny and ask him if he learned anything new today, what his plans are later, then you can also tell him about your day, tell him something funny that happened in your day, and you should also try and find things that interest you both...if you still are having trouble than maybe you guys just don't have anything in common

Caitlin

things like what you've done as a child or talk to him about how his day was. talk about you dream or something. what you plan for the future or problems you have. if somethings wrong talk to him about it. play the secret game where you tell your secrets to eachother :) hope i helped you hun. good luck!

Jade

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