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  • Am I a Bad Person Plz Help I'm Upset? Hi what do i do in this situation and am i a bad person? Its a long story so this is the simplified verison. 1. This girl had a crush on me for 2 years. She then started being creepy and a stalker 2. Her friends were not anymore but creepy at first, they said things like "hey i know ur sister" when we first met. 3. The worst part is she use too tell me on facebook message not in person that people thought I was a fag and that theres a lot of people that hated me. This bothered me so much it had upset me. I asked her who is saying this stuff and she says she cant tell me :( 4. Eventually she told me who is calling me a fag and stuff and who hates me but idk if what she said is even true. She is kinda annoying me everyday on fb chat and she bullied me. 5. After 2 years of her liking me she says she stops liking me. I didnt get a good impression of her so i still today im annoyed at her. i dont hate her i just find her annoying. 6. She will be in my highschool for the next 4 years and will be beside my locker until university. Also my dad knows her dad cause they went to the same school!!! 7. Everyday she usetoo say "lets hang out" but i always make an excuse not too. 8. I broke a promise with her saying that i would be her friend but i didnt. Also she gets mad when i talk to other girls and she cried so much when i told her i didnt like her and i dont wan to go out on a date. 9. She told other people that i was dating her which i was not and then people bullied me cause of that 10. FINALLY today she stops talking to me because i have ignored her so much and stayed away from her, but now she HATES ME! The problem is she sent me a long message on fb telling me how she hated me and it makes me feel bad cause i ignored her. She says that "why are u ignoring me i did nothing i just want to be your friend". I dont want to be her friend cause she is annoying and she use too bully me and i got a bad impression from her SOMEONE PLZ HELP ME, CAUSE AM I BAD PERSON CAUSE I IGNORED HER AND BROKE HER PROMISE CAUSE I DONT WANT TO BE HER FRIEND? ALSO!!!!! LISTEN TO THIS, I HEARD RUMORS THAT SHE MIGHT SPREAD FAKE RUMORS ABOUT ME TO OTHER PEOPLE NOW CAUSE SHE IS SO MAD AND SHE MIGHT BLACKMAIL ME

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    This sound's VERY VERY similar to my friend's situation with a guy she liked for 2 years, I was even friend's with his Sister... Oh gosh Is this you?! Anyways, The people mean barley talk anymore except random subtle chatting on facebook & as for you, She was just as upset But I mean I don't think this girl will do anything to hurt you too bad If she truly liked you, Stop ignoring her, Don't flirt just talk it out! Let her know you don't feel the same way! And no you are not a bad person, Just made bad choice's, Like everyone in life. I hope it all works out Good luck

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This sound's VERY VERY similar to my friend's situation with a guy she liked for 2 years, I was even friend's with his Sister... Oh gosh Is this you?! Anyways, The people mean barley talk anymore except random subtle chatting on facebook & as for you, She was just as upset But I mean I don't think this girl will do anything to hurt you too bad If she truly liked you, Stop ignoring her, Don't flirt just talk it out! Let her know you don't feel the same way! And no you are not a bad person, Just made bad choice's, Like everyone in life. I hope it all works out Good luck

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little kiddo:P don't worry, you are a good person:D your friend's a little weird though:) all the best<3

Mori

Act like a grown up and stop listening to rumors. If she really annoyed you so then you should have told her that she bothered you. You aren't a bad person, you just had a difficult situation with someone and handled it the wrong way. If you want to make things right, then you should go say something like: "I'm sorry if I was so rude but I felt annoyed by you because of blablabla, I'm sorry if I made you feel bad and i hope that we never go through a misunderstanding/argument like this again."

Mariana

tell her exactly what you just wrote on here. You find her annoying but didnt want to hurt her feelings aqnd so ignored her and lied to her. You don't like her and never will. Also she tormented and bullied you and said awful rumours about you too. if she blackmails you and starts crying or whatever, don;t feel bad you are not a bad person at all, this chick is physcotic. if she blackmails you, show everyone the message she sent you. its a little dirty but it will put her in her place. good luck!

japanese pirate1

ignoring her may have been a little harsh, but ur not a bad person because of it. she sounds pretty creepy and i dont think i would have wanted to be her friend either. she is a bad person if she is spreading fake rumors about you and maybe going to blackmail you. trust me you are a good person!! :) hope this helped :):)

Brigi

WHAT THE F***?? Why would you say that you are a bad person?? That creepy girl has major issues A similar thing happened to my sister: There was some guy that really liked her and kept saying hi like all the time and he stared at her forever and even when she looked back he still didn't look away It was like this for ages and he finally was like oh do you like me and she said no He got like sooo depressed but he still is always saying hi If you think you are a bad person then you are wrong because you just did the right thing! That is probably what most people would do in your situation ps. I am very sorry about all the bullying :(

Helen

Act like a grown up and stop listening to rumors. If she really annoyed you so then you should have told her that she bothered you. You aren't a bad person, you just had a difficult situation with someone and handled it the wrong way. If you want to make things right, then you should go say something like: "I'm sorry if I was so rude but I felt annoyed by you because of blablabla, I'm sorry if I made you feel bad and i hope that we never go through a misunderstanding/argument like this again."

Mariana

tell her exactly what you just wrote on here. You find her annoying but didnt want to hurt her feelings aqnd so ignored her and lied to her. You don't like her and never will. Also she tormented and bullied you and said awful rumours about you too. if she blackmails you and starts crying or whatever, don;t feel bad you are not a bad person at all, this chick is physcotic. if she blackmails you, show everyone the message she sent you. its a little dirty but it will put her in her place. good luck!

japanese pirate1

ignoring her may have been a little harsh, but ur not a bad person because of it. she sounds pretty creepy and i dont think i would have wanted to be her friend either. she is a bad person if she is spreading fake rumors about you and maybe going to blackmail you. trust me you are a good person!! :) hope this helped :):)

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