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Last night I dreamt about two of my exes, what could it mean?

• Last night I dreamt about two of my ex boyfriends. It was a strange dream. I dreamt about my first ex that I was with for four years. I dreamt that I ran into him at a motel or something like that and that he missed me and wanted to cuddle and be intimate but I was totally uninterested to even be around him. In our actual relationship he was an abusive drug addict and totally mistreated me and made me feel like I didn’t deserve better. So I broke up with him (in real life) Then I started dreaming about me second ex which I was with for about a year. We’ve been broken up for like about 3 years or more and have pretty much lost touch. I broke up with him too. The reason we broke up is because we used to argue a lot he use to insult me because of small immature things like the type of music I listened to and my education level at my age, even though I was in school trying to get it together, and I found out he lied about his age. He was much younger than what he claimed and looked. I wasn’t ok with the age difference and especially because he lied to me, well it also explained a lot. We were friends after our break up. He used to write me letters and on myspace (that’s how we met btw) I later learned through Myspace that he got married and he also deleted me off of his friends list. We have lost touch and are no longer “friends”. I took the hint and moved on. Idk why he would just want to cut me off like that, we did have some good times and plus I respect the fact that he has moved on too. Well back my dream, in my dream I wanted him back. I went looking for my second ex and found him at his home. He lived with his “wife” which was also expecting their child. In my dream she wasn’t as attractive as I am and I thought to myself there is no way in hell that I can’t make him have a change of heart and come back to me(Btw I am no home wrecker I would never do that in real life). I tried getting him back by telling him that he made a mistake and that I am a better woman for him. I was making moves and tried to seduce him but he wasn’t having any of it. He was totally uninterested just how I was uninterested in my first ex. I just found this dream to be so bizarre and it has been bugging me all day. What could it mean? Does it mean that I still have feelings for him? Is the dream trying to tell me that he is happy with his life right now and that he doesn’t a rat’s *** about me anymore? I admit a part of me wishes we were still friends….

• Answer:

  The dream just means that you were thinking of him, not necessarily in that way though. You determine what your dreams mean. If you want to be his friend tell him, but just because you loved him in the dream does not mean you love him in real life. Be honest with yourself and do whatever you need to to make yourself satisfied.