Guys help: How to get out of the friend zone?!?
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So there is a guy I have liked for a while now and he has led me on for months and he did like me on and off but we talked and right now he cares about me too much and doesn't want to hurt me and ruin our friendship with anything. He says I am one of his best friends here and I am glad that we are that close but I want to be more than friends. I think he likes this other girl right now and I think she likes him but she is very flirty and falls for a guy and then just wants to be friends a lot so I am not sure what will happen there. I am trying to not let him know that I am hurting and I am trying to get over him and be friends but it is hard. Is there any possibility that he will change his mind and how would I go about trying to make that happen? I am not sure what to do right now....it sucks because he is such a good guy and I hate being jealous and upset all the time.
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Answer:
talk to him make the first move if he doesn't react leave him to the other girl and when he'll be left alone ,eventually, he'll crawl to you. trust me we guys do that stuff.
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talk to him make the first move if he doesn't react leave him to the other girl and when he'll be left alone ,eventually, he'll crawl to you. trust me we guys do that stuff.
Mike
Once you are in the friend zone you can check out any time you like but you can never leave. You can seduce him and have a short relationship. Then have neither when it ends. You can just be neither and be done with him all together (both forms of checking out) or you can be his friend. But there is no leaving unless it is a movie. In which case when the director yells "thats a wrap" it is all over with anyway.
Entice_Me
LOOK, if you're one of his best friends he will like you for who you are ( since you're his friend that's probably why he hangs out with you). You go there and tell him, don't loose him to another girl. And if he does date that girl he will be heartbroken and a fight might pop up between you too. GO TELL HIM!!!!
Nadine Park
Directions out of the friend zone: Make a right at He's Not Interested Road go 2 blocks to the Other Girl Puts Out Blvd and there you are
Have you specifically told him your feelings for him? Remember, it doesn't always have to be the guy to say first. If he finds out that you want a little more, then I'm sure he'll give it a go. Just tell him that if it doesn't work out, then you two can easily fall back to friendship. Just tell him your feelings, and go from there. Don't be afraid, it's easier than you might think. If you don't tell him, you could be kicking yourself for the rest of your life. Good luck!
Chris
Directions out of the friend zone: Make a right at He's Not Interested Road go 2 blocks to the Other Girl Puts Out Blvd and there you are
Have you specifically told him your feelings for him? Remember, it doesn't always have to be the guy to say first. If he finds out that you want a little more, then I'm sure he'll give it a go. Just tell him that if it doesn't work out, then you two can easily fall back to friendship. Just tell him your feelings, and go from there. Don't be afraid, it's easier than you might think. If you don't tell him, you could be kicking yourself for the rest of your life. Good luck!
Chris
Once you are in the friend zone you can check out any time you like but you can never leave. You can seduce him and have a short relationship. Then have neither when it ends. You can just be neither and be done with him all together (both forms of checking out) or you can be his friend. But there is no leaving unless it is a movie. In which case when the director yells "thats a wrap" it is all over with anyway.
Entice_Me
LOOK, if you're one of his best friends he will like you for who you are ( since you're his friend that's probably why he hangs out with you). You go there and tell him, don't loose him to another girl. And if he does date that girl he will be heartbroken and a fight might pop up between you too. GO TELL HIM!!!!
Nadine Park
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