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My bf; he's gona fight in the ufc, what should I do? I don't want him to but he won't listen?WIL ANSWER YOURS!?

  • Hey um me and my bf r both 16, and right now he's really good at mma (mixed martial arts) but just a week ago he was contacted by ufc (ultimate fighting championship) that he could sign a contract with them to fight in the ufc once he's 18. But I don't want him to! I afraid he'll get injured someday and love him really much. He is the most perfect guy I've ever known, his face and body is just extraordinary and his personality is just... He's like a miracle! He's the best thing that happened to me and will ever happen to me and I'm sure of it; but now he's gona fight, FOR A LIVING! He has cage/ring fights right now, and I can't even bear being in the arena, let alone watching. But if I don't watch, I get so worried somethings going to happen to him, and I get so nervous and uncomfortable, but so far he's won every fight, so I haven't seen the worst yet. I told him I would hav no choice but to leave him if he continued to fight, and now he's stuck mindlessly about this decision, but secretly, I would never leave him. I actually met jack at a ring fight in the audience; he asked for my # and we started there. I used to like watching fights, I thought they were entertaining. But not anymore. When he asks why I don't like him fighting, I am dying to say I'm scared to death he's gona get hurt, but I just say I think its stupid. Now he's thinking I'm being a b*tch; he never said it (he would never call me b*tch and stuff) but I can tell he's thinking that. He says I should appriectiate him becoming a pro athelete. I'm stuck; how am I gona convince him not to fight anymore? I cry about this everytime I think about it! Say if u were in my position; what would u do? Should I just let him be? Any advice would be apprietiated, thanks a bunch :)

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    Nice try Jack. You're a f***ing loser buddy.

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Nice try Jack. You're a f***ing loser buddy.

SweetBee...

you really should support him. it's part of who he is. if you don't appreciate it then break up

CoNvErSeBaBex3

I can understand where you're coming from (which is a good place) because what girlfriend would want to see her boyfriend get hurt or put in danger? I don't like cage fighting either, but if that's what his passion is then you shouldn't try to stop him. He got a really great opportunity and you shouldn't encourage him to miss out on it. Yes, it could be dangerous. But he might have a really bright future ahead of him with this stuff. Tell him HONESTLY why you don't like the fighting, tell him that you're scared for him. Trust me, he'll understand and be really touched that you care so much about him. He'd like that reason a whole lot better than you telling him something he loves is "stupid". Stay strong sweetie and let your boyfriend go after his goals :)

average cabbage

he wont do it, i know kids that say the same ****. hahaha not makin fun of the guy just saying he wont do it due to it being a lot of pressure that he wont be able to take

Honestly, i know this isn't what you want to hear, but 2 years from now you probably won't even be with him. And if you are still with him, let him have his fun. You are being way too clingy and that is probably the number one personality turnoff for guys all across the world. Also, you told him you would leave him if he did MMA? -_- That is probably the worst mistake you could have made. Testosterone provides sex drive and need for violence in men, so you are basically taking 2 things he naturally can't control and telling him to choose one over the other. This is coming from a teenage guy's perspective so i think i predicted how he will react right on the spot.

Paul

You need to tell him how you feel. He knows it's a possibility that he'll be hurt. If he denies that then he's stupid. I think that he'll appreciate your concern. But if this is his dream, then he's probably going to follow it until he gets hurt and then he may reconsider. Depends on how much he loves it I suppose. If you love him you need to support his dream. If you once liked fighting then you seem sort of hypocritical to not enjoy it now. I know you're scared but he might feel like you don't have faith in him and that could hurt him. If you want to support him then tell him you're scared to death but you have faith in him. Best of luck !!!

Kayla

I didn't read it all, so I am going to say this. If you really loved him, you would let him do it. If someone offered YOU your dream job, and he said, no, you can't do it, how would that make you feel? You would feel mad that he wouldn't let you your DREAM job. Let him take it.

Believer

Honestly, i know this isn't what you want to hear, but 2 years from now you probably won't even be with him. And if you are still with him, let him have his fun. You are being way too clingy and that is probably the number one personality turnoff for guys all across the world. Also, you told him you would leave him if he did MMA? -_- That is probably the worst mistake you could have made. Testosterone provides sex drive and need for violence in men, so you are basically taking 2 things he naturally can't control and telling him to choose one over the other. This is coming from a teenage guy's perspective so i think i predicted how he will react right on the spot.

You need to tell him how you feel. He knows it's a possibility that he'll be hurt. If he denies that then he's stupid. I think that he'll appreciate your concern. But if this is his dream, then he's probably going to follow it until he gets hurt and then he may reconsider. Depends on how much he loves it I suppose. If you love him you need to support his dream. If you once liked fighting then you seem sort of hypocritical to not enjoy it now. I know you're scared but he might feel like you don't have faith in him and that could hurt him. If you want to support him then tell him you're scared to death but you have faith in him. Best of luck !!!

Kayla

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