Cant seem to get my messages?

Broke up with my ex girlfriend of 2 years and cant seem to get over her.?

• so i have been single for about 3 months now, most people may think its not enough time to get over someone but my ex girlfriend says and seems she is completely over me. recently iv just let her get on with it and stopped talking to her as i get dry answers or i get ignored. so i stopped speaking for a month or two and felt so lonely without her and the only person i most feel comfortable with is her, we have been through so much together that i cant seem to get over like we should have had a baby but was miscarried which caused alot of grief and sadness. anyway i spoke with her today as im feeling really really down and depressed and i told her how iv been feeling but she doesnt seem interested. She was saying all this horrible stuff like, i was never happy, and that she is with someone alot better and that it wouldnt bother her if i wasnt here anymore. she knows how low i have been feeling so why is she kicking me whilst im down? yea iv made a few mistakes in the relationships (not cheating or anything) but apart from that i treated her like a princess. she was and still is my princess but it hurts soo much more hearing that from her own words. iv tried meeting other girls but seems no one is quite like her and just cant help to compare the two which is unfair for the other girl. i feel so alone and miserable day in day out, and had thoughts about just getting out of everyones lives for good. feel like such a freak but i dont know what to do anymore.

• Answer:

  Dave, you sound like a really nice guy, and as much as you feel like a 'freak' people take different lengths of time to get over relationships. If she saw the break up coming then chances are she started preparing long before it happened... you never know. (and honestly in my opinion the fact that she's being mean is probably because there are still some feeling there... sometimes being mean is the easier option, I should know I've been there) Things will look up for you, I don't doubt it at all. You can't expect a totally amazing replacement to come along straight away and it probably wouldn't be wise whilst that relationship is so raw anyway. In my experience the best relationships are the ones that find you, and they can begin in the most unlikely of places. So enjoy what you have and I'm sure someone great will come along in time. But if you can try to enjoy single life for a bit. You will get over her. If she thinks the relationship is over then it probably wasn't meant to be. Have some time with the lads or something. But your life is WAY to precious to waste because of a girl. Trust me, were not that special :) Chin up and hope it all turns out well