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Divorce papers ready. Am I doing the right thing.?

• I am from India. I married this horrible 34 yr old woman 18 months back through an arranged marriage. She did not mix with the family from the first day and adopted a hostile attitude towards my parents for no reason. She is angry most of the times for trivial or no reason and stops eating food for some time. My wife is working in a Private Co. and does not bother to tell me where and how she is spending her salary. I and my Father bear all the expenses of the house.My old mother has to do all the household work and my wife shamelessly keeps sitting in her room and keeps watching TV. My wife does not even bother to speak to my parents or show any respect to them. She remains aloof and is always nagging me on some thing or the other. She says what have I done for her even though I have given her a very comfortable life with all the modern amenities and facilities at home. She works at a place close to her parents home and goes to meet them everyday, they also encourage her for her such behaviour. I suspect she gives some part of her salary to them. They have earning sons but still want to keep their daughter under their firm control. She has started doing MBA after marriage. She is 32 but did not bother to do MBA before. She stays at her parents house while giving MBA exams for 10 days, this time she stayed for 20 days there. MBA is also an excuse to run away from responsibilities of the home, plus she wants to earn more for her greedy parents if she gets promotion after completing MBA. She dosent hv dinner with the family and has it in her bedroom. My mom has been very nice to her she even prepares lunch for my wife which she takes to office, but my wife is so ungrateful that sometimes she leaves the lunch tiffin at home just to insult my mother. But my mom still religiously prepares lunch for her everyday. She does little or no work in my house but worked like a donkey for 20 days in her parents house when her brother’s wife was pregnant. She had terribly reduced after working like a donkey in parents house. Such are her double standards. These days my wife has started doing little work like washing my clothes but that also to stop my mother from coming into my room to keep my clothes and create more tension in the house. All of us have been very caring towards her. Recently she had high fever me and my mom took so much care of her still her hostile tirade continues against my mother. I personally administered her all the medicines for 3 days still she barks that I don’t care for her. Now the twist is that since last few months she has shown some remarkable improvement in behaviour, she started doing lot of household work, even spoke with my mom more than before. Now what happened this Thursday that she was making rotis for dinner. Generally my dad has his dinner first, she asked me to hv dinner and that she will be making me rotis first and dont wait for her as I had eaten less on that day.We have our dinner separately in our bedroom, I sat with my dad on the dining table to have dinner and even asked her to hv dinner with my parents on the dining table. After making the rotis she angrily walked to the bedroom and switched on her TV. I left my dinner in between and went to her and requested her to join the family in dinner, it looks very bad the way she is behaving. She started accusing me that I dont care for her feelings and blah blah... She eventually came to the dinner table but was red faced. I also got angry and kept sitting with my parents and kept watching TV after dinner. When I went to the bedroom she threw blankets violently on my face accusing me of not loving her. My mom intervened. She called our family theives (her father had given some fridge and TV, a few other items on his own free will which we hv not even touched). TV is used by her, my parent dont watch her TV. Things which were improving hv come back to square one. My health has got affected and I have reduced a lot after marriage because of all this tension, but my wife is least bothered. My mom is especially very angry with her, saying that she hates us so much that she cannot hv dinner with us for even a single day. Her health has also deteriorrated. I have made up my mind to divorce her. Am I doing the right thing.

• Answer:

  If it was an arranged marriage, then I think you are doing the right thing. If you think it is the right thing, then do it. Think about it first. Do you, deep inside, love the woman? If not, then-- go ahead!!!!!