Have you ever been made fun of and how did you deal?

How can I get a gf with out being made fun of?

  • I am a pretty stereotypical middle schooler, I am really out going tho, so out going sometimes it is taken as annoying. I am "smarter than the average bear" lol and the girls at school did a poll ( god only knows why) and I was 10th in my grade. I am nervous and afraid to be rejected bc my grade is smaller 90 some peeps and I am the type of kids easily made fun of. The girl I like is funny, smart,sporty, and really really hot;) lol but also at my same social level so i think I have a chance I just need a way to ask her without her spreading it and me getting made fun of for trying. ps: i think she likes me according to the gossip girl in my grade and one of her friends pps: basically the first part doesnt matter, the bottom line is how can I ask her out wit out being made fun of

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    Who cares about rejection and what people think. Whats going to happen? The boys will laugh at you? Just say "at least I the balls to ask" and then punch him in the nose! If she said no, she might just say yes after that punch in the nose scene. If its still a NO, well you punched him in the nose at least! I used to think like you.... think of it like this. as long as you have the balls that the other "boys" don't then thats what separates you from them. In other words BE A MAN not a "boy"!

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Who cares about rejection and what people think. Whats going to happen? The boys will laugh at you? Just say "at least I the balls to ask" and then punch him in the nose! If she said no, she might just say yes after that punch in the nose scene. If its still a NO, well you punched him in the nose at least! I used to think like you.... think of it like this. as long as you have the balls that the other "boys" don't then thats what separates you from them. In other words BE A MAN not a "boy"!

Adriano

Stop being a pansy and just straight-up ask, dude. If she says no, then that's that. Don't push it and don't complain. Deal with it. You only have to worry about taking guff for it if you're rejected, and if you're rejected, take it with a grain of salt or people will see you acting like a whiny turd and then they will make fun of you. You also sound like you care far too much what other people think of you. Knock it off.

You should say- " Hi ________. Can I please talk to you alone?" and then go to a place alone. " I think your smart and pretty. Ive heard some gossip that you like me. It's ok. Dont be embarrassed because I like u too. So, would you like to go out or something?!" that's how I asked my bf out.

Kaitlyn

Why do you need a gf, if your school is like that wait till you go to high school. That way it won't be too early and you won't get bother by ranks and **** like that

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If you try your hardest you will never look like a fool.

Kassidy

i have like 40 kids in my grade, crazy i know but i like it better small. anyways, just ask her. i know your thinking right now of how stupid that answer is but look at it from a girls point of view. say you ask her out, she says no, your embarrassed, but it happens to everyone, and it might the thing to talk about for no more than 4 or 5 days, then everyone has moved onto something else. middle school is all about drama, everyone wants to know all the details of everything. fights, breakups, makeups, anything that's has drama, everyone wants to know. anyways, say you make asking her out a big special thing for her, like writing it on a cake or something, and she says no, you look even more foolish than you would have if you just casually asked her out. now, say she says yes, there may be a chance that the only reason she said yes is to spare your feelings. just ask her out on the bus, or in the hall, near the lockers, on the walk home, at a sport you both play, something just simple. i hope i helped :)

Molly Taylor

ok bro. listen im going to lay it out for you. i had to do this myself, go to your local ross or marshall's get you some really cool pants shirt that fits you not too tight, but not baggy get some matching shoes. clean yourself up and dont talk about the usual things, just go up to her and be real about what you have on your mind. impress her with the first real impression then go in for the kill. if you want to go for a soft approach like how i am now, write her a poem. if you cant write one, email me and ill give you one of mine.

Go for it, man! The longer you wait, the longer you have to imagine all of the outlandish scenarios that could possibly happen. If you like her, I doubt she's cruel or nasty. But, is she? Or is she a genuinely kind person? Do you know her to be a "gossip queen" or to be a bully? The only one who can answer these questions is you. If you genuinely believe that this girl will go out of her way to hurt you, then maybe she isn't worth it. But, if you are just being paranoid, then it is a good idea to ask- privately. I really think that, above all, she will be more than flattered by your invitation ^^ Good luck and take care! Happy Easter!

Maria

Go for it, man! The longer you wait, the longer you have to imagine all of the outlandish scenarios that could possibly happen. If you like her, I doubt she's cruel or nasty. But, is she? Or is she a genuinely kind person? Do you know her to be a "gossip queen" or to be a bully? The only one who can answer these questions is you. If you genuinely believe that this girl will go out of her way to hurt you, then maybe she isn't worth it. But, if you are just being paranoid, then it is a good idea to ask- privately. I really think that, above all, she will be more than flattered by your invitation ^^ Good luck and take care! Happy Easter!

Maria

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