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  • I have a boyfriend who I normally see every Friday. Our anniversary is on the 5th of April, where it will be our 6 month anniversary. I am bad with dates and was not keeping track of what date is what right now, so I didn't realize our anniversary was going to be so soon. I was planning to break up with him this Friday, but that would be the day after our anniversary. Last time we were out he tried to buy me Chanel perfume but I told him it wasn't necessary. I think he's bought me something expensive already. I don't know when to break up. Is it too cruel to break up after or before? Either way I know he will be hurt and for sure he will cry (last year he did some stupid things and I broke up, then when we got back together he cried out of happiness). I want to minimize the pain for him as much as possible and I'm worrying so much right now. There is not much time to do it before the anniversary, I have tests for the next two days and can't go out, too much study. But after is too cruel what do I do? I didn't break up last week because he was busy studying and I was sick, so we didn't meet at all.

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    I would bring it up with out breaking up with him so he can start to live with the idea of you two not together before you break up. If you do that, then he can really give his input on his feelings and tell you if he's headed the same direction or if your reasons of breaking up are still valid. I had a fight with my bf and the reasons of breaking up were invalid so we talked threw it. Its how it should be... If he is getting hurt I'd wait a little bit further maybe Saturday? So he has all of Saturday to be upset but has to pull it together by Sunday. Guys are easily hurt but as any human... We all get hurt. We bounce back pretty well however. Your mind has a way of sorting the needs and wants, and wants slowly are eliminated everyday. It's hard... It's very hard. You don't want to hurt him but no matter what he will be hurt. My rule: if you can go the rest of your life and never hear or see him again... Then you can break up. If you can think of the smallest time you'd need them.. Don't break up because you'll get hurt as well as him and no one is going anywhere. -Lil Leahs, please answer mine, it talks about dating where your friend is sterling your man. I need help

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I would bring it up with out breaking up with him so he can start to live with the idea of you two not together before you break up. If you do that, then he can really give his input on his feelings and tell you if he's headed the same direction or if your reasons of breaking up are still valid. I had a fight with my bf and the reasons of breaking up were invalid so we talked threw it. Its how it should be... If he is getting hurt I'd wait a little bit further maybe Saturday? So he has all of Saturday to be upset but has to pull it together by Sunday. Guys are easily hurt but as any human... We all get hurt. We bounce back pretty well however. Your mind has a way of sorting the needs and wants, and wants slowly are eliminated everyday. It's hard... It's very hard. You don't want to hurt him but no matter what he will be hurt. My rule: if you can go the rest of your life and never hear or see him again... Then you can break up. If you can think of the smallest time you'd need them.. Don't break up because you'll get hurt as well as him and no one is going anywhere. -Lil Leahs, please answer mine, it talks about dating where your friend is sterling your man. I need help

Leah Leahs

In my opinion it's always best before it won't make it hurt any less but at least he knows you were trying to consider his feelings and you didn't get the gift then dump him It a very hard thing to do I feel for you both but it's better than staying together if your not happy his "someone" may be just waiting for you to let him go :) I hope this helps :)

Jodi

As soon as possible the longer you wait the more he gets attached the hardier is for him do him a faver

Sam

Break ip now the sooner the better it's never easy trust me but you need to get it over with

Erin

wow only if he knows what i know now:(

Linda Ronski

you gotta do it fast and easy. no need for explanations get rid of him asap if you dont wanna be with him

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Louise

In my opinion it's always best before it won't make it hurt any less but at least he knows you were trying to consider his feelings and you didn't get the gift then dump him It a very hard thing to do I feel for you both but it's better than staying together if your not happy his "someone" may be just waiting for you to let him go :) I hope this helps :)

Break ip now the sooner the better it's never easy trust me but you need to get it over with

Erin

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