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I love my friend or not.

I'm in love with this girl, but she seems me as just a friend. What should I do?

  • I've met this girl at Youth club, and I have really fallen in love with her, but she sees me as just a friend. We are both 15, but we plan on waiting until we can afford it, before we have children. We will have three kids. A neurobiologist, and the others can be whatever she wants them to be, as long as one of them is a Neurobiologist. Or any kind of scientist, really. Or anything else well-payed. I don't want my kids to be poor. Or stupid. I really do love this girl, She's smart, funny, clever, and she's the smartest girl I've ever met. This isn't the first time I've been in a relationship, but it's definitely the first time I've been in love. I love everyhting about her, and it's so sad that she only thinks of me as just a friend. Also, please don't give me some speech on how much you hate anime, or think that we shouldn't be together. We are abolsutely perfect for each other, and everyone knows it except for her. She is everything I've ever wanted! Her hair colour isn't really my favourite, but that's only a small thing, and it's literally the only thing about her that I don't absolutely adore with all of my heart! We both love the same anime, manga, and video games. We are both pretty smart, and we are both the best-looking kids in our High-IQ youth club. Yes, there's a youth club for that. Anyway, I really do love her, and being alone, without her laugh, her smile, ber beautiful face... it just tears up my soul like a chainsaw on fire. ...Yeah, I know that probably didn't sound that good. I've never actually liked anyone this much before. I've been spendin all of my spare time watching her favourite Anime and Manga, so that we'd have something more to talk about. But still, it isn't working fast enough. She is the love of my life, and I'm worried that if I don't have her love me back soon enough, somebody else will get her, and they aren't good enough for her. I have the highest IQ, and we have something special: sweet, good-natured, genius love. So anyway, I love this girl, she sees me as just a friend, what should I do?

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    D'awhh, that was so genuine it made me want to puke.. In a good way. How about this, you just tell her everything that you just said on here. I'm sure that any girl that you said that whole thing to would be deeply touched and wouldn't be able to help but at least give you a shot. Minus the hair part, girls can be touchy when you point out flaws, even little ones. If you really want her all to yourself, just let her know how much she means to you. Tell her in any way you feel comfortable, as long as it doesn't involve a phone or chatrooms, do it in a personal way. Such as, give her a written note, or even just tell her once you guys get a chance to be alone. You can have fun with it to, incorporate things that she likes. you obviously know what kinds of things make her happy, such as the anime's and manga she watches. Maybe use some charming way from a show that she watches to tell her.. or even just use a really adorable and sweet idea from one of the shows to get her very happy, then let her know how you feel. If you use something she really likes and then give her that long speech about how happy she makes you and what you love about her, it'll be like killing two birds with one stone. She'll definitely feel even a little bit of something at this point. That's about all I've got to say. I know my thoughts might be a little jumbled there but that was all from my stream of consciousness. Can't guarantee it'll work, but it's worth the shot! Now go get her before someone else does! And good luck~

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D'awhh, that was so genuine it made me want to puke.. In a good way. How about this, you just tell her everything that you just said on here. I'm sure that any girl that you said that whole thing to would be deeply touched and wouldn't be able to help but at least give you a shot. Minus the hair part, girls can be touchy when you point out flaws, even little ones. If you really want her all to yourself, just let her know how much she means to you. Tell her in any way you feel comfortable, as long as it doesn't involve a phone or chatrooms, do it in a personal way. Such as, give her a written note, or even just tell her once you guys get a chance to be alone. You can have fun with it to, incorporate things that she likes. you obviously know what kinds of things make her happy, such as the anime's and manga she watches. Maybe use some charming way from a show that she watches to tell her.. or even just use a really adorable and sweet idea from one of the shows to get her very happy, then let her know how you feel. If you use something she really likes and then give her that long speech about how happy she makes you and what you love about her, it'll be like killing two birds with one stone. She'll definitely feel even a little bit of something at this point. That's about all I've got to say. I know my thoughts might be a little jumbled there but that was all from my stream of consciousness. Can't guarantee it'll work, but it's worth the shot! Now go get her before someone else does! And good luck~

More bitter than sweet

i'm 15 and you sound perfect! you two sound like you'd be the cutest, sweetest couple ever, and it's so annoying that she doesn't feel the same way! does she definitely know how you feel, more than a friend? make sure you remind her this a lot, and tell her how much it's winding you up that you know if she doesn't do anything then you'll only ever be friends blablabla...keep up with the cute stuff, let her know all the stuff you do like watching her favourite anime and whatever...good luck! i really hope you two work out:3

lucylocketxo

ok first of all anime is awesoem who dosent love it second of all have soemof your bros tell her you like her and then walk up to her and say ehy when they leave and be like what was that all about and if she lies and says something wierd and is blushing and smiling a lot if she dosent she i\either is really good at hiding it or she dosent know she likes you yet or she just dont like you you sound like a wondrful guy so you should not be worried about anything just keep doing what your doing and be extra nice to her and make sure that no man EVER!!!!! hurts her

Jordan

If you like her so much ask her out tell her how you feel. Maybe ask her to go to the movies? If you really like her don't let anyone ask her out before you... hope this helped

Singer

i'm 15 and you sound perfect! you two sound like you'd be the cutest, sweetest couple ever, and it's so annoying that she doesn't feel the same way! does she definitely know how you feel, more than a friend? make sure you remind her this a lot, and tell her how much it's winding you up that you know if she doesn't do anything then you'll only ever be friends blablabla...keep up with the cute stuff, let her know all the stuff you do like watching her favourite anime and whatever...good luck! i really hope you two work out:3

lucylocketxo

ok first of all anime is awesoem who dosent love it second of all have soemof your bros tell her you like her and then walk up to her and say ehy when they leave and be like what was that all about and if she lies and says something wierd and is blushing and smiling a lot if she dosent she i\either is really good at hiding it or she dosent know she likes you yet or she just dont like you you sound like a wondrful guy so you should not be worried about anything just keep doing what your doing and be extra nice to her and make sure that no man EVER!!!!! hurts her

Jordan

If you like her so much ask her out tell her how you feel. Maybe ask her to go to the movies? If you really like her don't let anyone ask her out before you... hope this helped

Singer

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