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+10PTS! Advice how to ask this girl out/talk to her from my college class?

  • +10PTS! Advice how to ask this girl out/talk to her from my college class? +10PTS! Advice how to ask this girl out/talk to her from my college class? Okay real quick background info I'm a 19 year old guy, shes 18. we are in community college in the same public speaking class. Im a very conservative guy, i am not attracted to whores that wear no clothing, im not out there looking for a sex buddy. I'm very attracted to this girl because she dresses moderately, doesn't wear skanky clothing, she appears to be very nice, has a great smile, and overall is just beautiful. Shes tall as all hell- like 5'10"-5'11". Im 5'10" and im not intimidated or afraid of talking to or dating a girl my height or even a tad taller. She is very sweet from what I can tell. I know she enjoys making new friends and she seems to be kind of shy (a little bit). For the first 8 weeks of the semester she sat on the other side of the rooms but about a month ago she began sitting on the side by me and a bunch of other people. Sometimes she just sits there and doesn't talk- does the fake texting thing I think to avoid that awkward moment. We have chatted a few times in class and each week (our class is once a week, for 3 hours) for the past few weeks while walking out of class we've managed to walk out at the same time and chat for a few minutes. I'd love to get to know her better. But I have no clue what to say. I get the impression that she has possibly never been in a relationship before- its just a gut feeling. I feel not many guys have been attracted to her as she doesn't appear to most guys as anywhere near as beautiful as I find her. Last week I noticed she had gotta a haircut and complimented how great it looked. I doubt she can tell how I feel, as I hide my feelings quite well. I could be wrong, and she may have relationship experience or not, I really don't know. Im dying here! Each Tuesday I sit near this girl, talk to her a little bit, and out of class I die of a choke and don't say anything! Come on ladies! Please help a nice, respectful guy out here with real advice. If anyone can help me out with some exact phrases on something to say I'd greatly appreciate it! Please don't tell me "just do it." Because I don't know what "it" is. I'm confident I could get a yes I just don't know what to say or how to go about it without seeming creepy.

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    Ah been there done that. Now you should do this, sit by her and chat, as always, and continue chatting as class is over (about how much hw you have in your other class, so lazy sometimes blah blah.. haha laugh about it) and then you say this: You: "hey listen, uh, you know I really think you're cute and stuff and you know I was thinking maybe you wanted to see a movie this weekend?" She replies: "[smiles] ya that would be nice" You: "[smlies] great! Ya il text you, whats your number" Her: "123-456-7890" You: "awesome! Ok il uh, talk to you later [smile] bye" Her: "[smiles] bye" You: [in your head] "ah f**k yesss!!! dude on yahoo answers was right!!" ... (rainbows, and birds chirping and a harp...) ..remember to do this when class is OVER, if it is before or during it will be weird and awkward and you will have effed up. So say this AFTER class. ..you welcome buddy. you got this!

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Ah been there done that. Now you should do this, sit by her and chat, as always, and continue chatting as class is over (about how much hw you have in your other class, so lazy sometimes blah blah.. haha laugh about it) and then you say this: You: "hey listen, uh, you know I really think you're cute and stuff and you know I was thinking maybe you wanted to see a movie this weekend?" She replies: "[smiles] ya that would be nice" You: "[smlies] great! Ya il text you, whats your number" Her: "123-456-7890" You: "awesome! Ok il uh, talk to you later [smile] bye" Her: "[smiles] bye" You: [in your head] "ah f**k yesss!!! dude on yahoo answers was right!!" ... (rainbows, and birds chirping and a harp...) ..remember to do this when class is OVER, if it is before or during it will be weird and awkward and you will have effed up. So say this AFTER class. ..you welcome buddy. you got this!

Ze next Ahnold.

you should ask her what her plans are for the weekend. be casual.....or ask to study together for an exam.... answer mine please!

Esther

CAN THIS QUESTION FINALLY GET OUT OF MY HOMEPAGE? **** you

Pingas

you should ask her what her plans are for the weekend. be casual.....or ask to study together for an exam.... answer mine please!

Esther

CAN THIS QUESTION FINALLY GET OUT OF MY HOMEPAGE? **** you

Pingas

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